Fan vent Venting! Im 31, married (5yrs) & I have two boys... 4yr old and 22mth old. Ive always worked, even if it was overnight so I could accommodate my sons schedule (the baby wasnt born yet). Then I changed to working days & would work from 9-5 and would be mom until bed time which is usually at about 8:30. Im up everyday at 7 and not in the bed again until well after midnight. He works from 3-11p so he only sees the boys in the morning before school & by the time he gets home they are knocked out. After doing this for the last 3 years, I decided in June of this year to resign & stay at home. I NEEDED A BREAK! Well to my surprise, its been far from a break. Now that Im home, my husband acts like Im his slave! The simplest things he wont do, but did do while I was working. So now we argue a whole lot more & in actuality Ive finally seen his true colors (and I dont like it). He says money is tight & I need to go back to work but he still finds time after work to hang out (he works on south beach) & comes home at 4a, thats if he comes in at all! I feel like since hes paying the bills alone now he has gotten real disrespectful! He talks to me any kind of way, & hes absolutely no help around the house. Like today he #2 (sorry if its tmi) & didnt flush the toilet! Come on dude, really? So now everytime we get into it (like we did about the toilet this a.m.) He threatens to move out because he knows Im not working. Well today I took him at his threat & helped him pack his stuff. Now mind you this is a guy who wont even wash his own underwear & if Im behind on laundry hell go buy new ones until I do them. So while he was busy packing I took all his under clothes & hid them (yes I was being petty). So he left around 5p saying hell be back for the rest of his stuff tomorrow. We have 2 cars. He took the newer car which I mainly drive (the one with the car seats) & took the keys to his car. So now Im without transportation. My son missed 2 weeks of school in Sept. recovering from a tonsillectomy (thats another story) & I dont want him to miss any more days if he isnt sick but education has never been priority to my husband. Now remember he packed his stuff & moved out today but I just looked out the window & hes in the driveway sleeping in his car (I took the hide key when he was moving out) I feel bad for him & I know he cant be comfortable in the car. Would you let him in the house after all of this knowing that hell abuse your kindness for weakness? Reposted by Elley
Posted on: Thu, 24 Oct 2013 07:36:00 +0000
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