First Class Single Lady part 2 if you think you need that man to survive But I am going to disagree with you If you tell me you cannot survive without him I see so many women under bondage Because a man is taking care of the bills I once told you a story last year about a very beautiful young girl who won a beauty pageant This girl graduated the same year with me But has never done anything meaningful with her life since then She lives in a house built by this married man Drives the best of cars and travels round the world To you this is life But I also ask Where is she ending up after all these? Even the pageant she won came with a price She must sleep with the CEO of the company If her face must appear on the billboard I know this very well because my kid sisters friend went through it Got to the point of being the queen But she couldn’t go beyond that stage Because she refused to pay the ultimate price (hope our beauty queens read this) Self esteem will make you walk out of any relationship that makes you another piece of furniture I write from the Christian perspective Because I am a Christian who doesn’t know much about the Quran Remember the story of Ruth and Esther in the Bible The future looked gloomy to them and they didn’t know what the future holds But they made up their minds to take a step out of their different positions to a place of hopelessness At the end, they were blessed Jesus Christ came from the lineage of Ruth whil Esther became a queen I know you are worried about your future without that man I know you don’t want to be in that relationship But you see yourself tied to it You have looked at the future and it looks dark without him But if you know who you are and what is in you You will take a walk What should bother you most in this life should be what God thinks about you and if His presence is with you Every other thing will definitely fall in place someday I see so many ladies regret and mourn their singleness Singleness does not mean loneliness You can only be lonely and incomplete when you choose to I am not trying to discourage people from getting married because marriage to the right partner is the most beautiful thing that can happen to any woman But I want to let you know that singleness should be a time to develop yourself holistically in education Business Ministry Career, etc Single ladies get frustrated and depressed because they fail to understand the reason for singleness If you fail to discover yourself as a single girl You will make life miserable for whoever gets involved with you Ruth was busy with her job and chosen career when Boaz met her She was not partying and dancing away her life Ruth was busy with her hands #Nigerianwoman female fans You have to find your place in destiny God created you for something and He can only bless you when He finds you diligent in your work Are you reading this now and you feel like #Nigerianwoman is talking only to the educated ones? Do you tell yourself that nothing good can come out of Nazareth? Read this story; a distant cousin was living in a mud house with her mother who is a widow She, being the only child always goes to the farm immediately after school She didn’t know how to further her education Her school uniform was torn and patched all over A day came that on her way from the farm A young medical doctor who came in from the USA saw her and instantly fell in love with her Today,she is in the US,working as a nurse and her mum has been with them since then You could be the instrument God will use to bring your parents out of poverty You may think you must have to do certain things to survive I know you are there as a house help But remember He lifts the poor out of the dunghill and I know God is able to move you from that grass to grace and glory Singleness is not a time for partying and man hunting It is not a time to look for precious souls to destroy It is not a time to visit different occult homes for devilish powers Singleness is not a time to follow men all over the country aimlessly It is not a time to travel abroad with a man who is growing his business while you waste away in the name of enjoyment Make sure you have a good reason to travel The money he keeps throwing at you won’t do much for you If he loves you that much Let him help you to start doing the fishing yourself Have you bothered asking why those men are not giving you something good for you to be independent? They wont give you good money Because they want to ever put you under their oppressing arms Young girl, develop yourself Many single ladies believe they must sleep with a man before marriage If they keep testing and going How many of them are you going to sleep with before the right one comes? Please don’t make yourself a testing ground for men What if you decide to test him before marriage and immediately after the marriage, something happens? This is why we shouldn’t try to take the place of God A woman I know very well lost a wonderful man who refused sleeping with her before marriage When I confronted her,she came up with the question What if I blindly marry him only to discover he is not a man? She later got married to another guy who slept with her Got her pregnant and dumped her immediately after the marriage The other man today is happily married with two wonderful children Another thing you should learn to do as a single woman is to stop running from one big church to the other A lot of single ladies do this with the mindset that if they join a big church and become a chorister Men will see them The right man will see you wherever you are Even in the most hidden place If you are a single mother and wants to remarry Don’t accept anything for a husband just because you need a companion I see ladies get into marriage with very rich men because they believe it is for their children Don’t you know God can bless you for you to become a blessing to your children? Look for a man who understands and believes in you Be happy and get busy with something meaningful The right man will someday come But you have to trust God and say this to him Give me your best! Have a Blessed-special Wednesday!
Posted on: Wed, 04 Dec 2013 14:30:37 +0000