For Richer Or Poorer. This word is in the vows for a reason. Money is one of the top things couples fight about, and no wonder – household finances weave a complicated web of ego, self-righteousness, responsibility, fear and control and power. Money can lead to all kinds of misunderstandings and disagreements. Oftentimes in relationships, one person is a spender; the other is the saver. And these titles often come with uncomplimentary tags: the spender is the “shopaholic”or “spendthrift.” The saver is the “cheapskate”or “tightwad.” It’s easy to fall into name calling, even if you keep it in your head. Money arguments tend to reflect fundamental differences between couples,and there’s not often a way to reconcile differences. One of the best ways to lessen arguments over money is simply to reflect on your differences with your partner. What does money mean to you? What does it mean to your significant other? Talk about it – how does it relate to your sense of stress? Well-being? Feelings of competence? Control? Self-respect and the respect of others? How do material possessions affect these things? The more you understand your own positions and your partners,the more you’ll be able to discuss money matters calmly and rationally. #DEK
Posted on: Sun, 06 Jul 2014 14:13:52 +0000
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