For all of you who look forward with anticipation to my long ass posts....LMAO....I promise this will be the last. But I have to vent after my wonderful eye opening experience at the bar Saturday Night. Its really very enlightening when you finally come to the realization that you are and have been a TOTAL fool. Its very humbling to know that you are a sucker and fall for sweet words (Oh you make me so happy!!!...during the first week...LOL!!!) And those 8 little letters (3 little words) that depending on who says them, mean absolutely nothing especially when they are so ashamed to be with you that they deny ever saying them....OUCH!!!. But it is somewhat comforting to know that you arent the first to fall for it nor will you be the last no matter how much you wanted to be or believed that you where. Could very well leave a person jaded and bitter but also empowered not to make the same mistake twice or in some cases 2 or 3 times (sorry Im a little slow) and to take solice in knowing that YOU are a good man (person) and it is their loss, although if they are the kind of person to treat you that way and in the first place and to call you the PAST after barely a month being apart (oh no wait you were never together....confusing isnt it?) then they are to self absorbed to ever realize what theyve lost anyway . Just a word of warning to anyone and everyone who falls in love with one of those serial love you for the moment types.... dont let anyone make you feel that you arent good enough or have enough money or whatever. In relationships you take care of each other equally. Dont let anyone make you feel insignificant by telling you Baby, Honey Sweetheart, you make me so happy and I want to be here or in Texas (Corpus Christi to be exact) with you...blah,blah,blah to your face when you are alone and then denying you in public passing you off as just friends and even convincing those who they did tell otherwise that You must have misunderstood . If someone tells you they love you then it means one of 2 things. They really do or they have an agenda even if its just to have some company. Now if they realize and tell you they were wrong and it was all pillow talk its usually very short lived and maybe major hurt can be avoided and forgiveness is a possibility. But if they seem to work really hard to make sure you believe it and then deny it to everyone else leaving you looking like a total retard, like you made it all up, then thats a pretty good sign that they really dont give a crap. A request for those of you who are inclined to treat people that way, the least you can do is admit you made a mistake and save the injured party some face and possibly salvage a friendship and who knows....maybe even become roomates. But once again that probably wont happen because it would make you look bad....we get it.. Word of warning to those hurt...if you really love the person it aint gonna go away. The only way to get through it is to replace that emotion with the exact opposite one. A pretty good songwriter once wrote Tears Dont Lie...well not necessarilly true....They do when cried by a liar....dont be fooled. This is my last post on this subject I promise so you dont have to block me...lol...and we can all lick our wounds and get on with our lives. But I hope this saves someone the heartache that some us hopeless put our trust in the wrong people fools have been through. Peace Everyone!
Posted on: Sun, 20 Oct 2013 13:58:02 +0000
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