For the second time this week I had a friend of the ex approach me and tell me how Im terrible for not allowing contact to Bailey as the ex is an amazing Dad who is devastated and is struggling with life now hes not seeing his son! i dont intend on slagging him off over Facebook as Im better then that & yes whilst we were together Bailey had a fantastic relationship with the ex and for a few months after the split, i even continued to support the ex through courts for access to his daughter, something i wouldnt of done if i honestly believed he was a terrible parent! i cant explain his actions as Im not him and Ive never been given an explanation or an apology for his behaviour! Cutting a long story short initially it was the social and police who stopped contact due to the risk to Bailey since then i have discussed contact options with the officials and offered supervised contact on several occasions all have been declined by the ex! My baby has been dragged through the mill and emotionally destroyed by his so called Dad for months but he is now back to his happy, smiling and fantastic self and I am so proud of how he has turned all the negatives into positives!! So next time you all want to come up and tell me how terrible I am just remember I am a working full time single mom who has been through a nasty break up, job change, dealing with my sons emotional state after his dads behaviour, single handedly raising my son and financially supporting every aspect of his life as despite what my ex says I dont get a penny from him, infact my son didnt even get a birthday card but you know something I dont hate my ex & like I said wont slag him off as I actually pity him as he is missing out on so much as ️Bailey is absolutely amazing and such a kind, considerate little boy who can light up any day with his beautiful smile, so why should I get upset, angry or bitter through my exs actions as the only person missing out is him! So next time you all want to judge me and pass your opinions on my life and circumstances maybe you should stop and keep your mouth shut as quite clearly the side of the story you heard was incorrect! Yes I have got angry with the ex but please tell me someone who wouldnt react as a protective mother when your child is hurt! This is the first and last time I will discuss this matter as I am past it all now, I dont want people to take sides or have sympathy as without sounding nasty I dont want it, me and Bailey are happier then we ever have been and are looking forward to Santa coming!! 😊
Posted on: Wed, 17 Dec 2014 17:43:56 +0000
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