Forbidden Love . . . Why do you have to meet someone that touches your heart although he is not meant for you? What is his purpose? To heal the wound of the past? Or to add more pain to your feelings? Why is it that sometimes even if you already have somebody you cannot avoid to love some one else? Is it because your partner has shortcomings or you’re not just contended with him? Ahhhhh … I understand that you cannot always fight for love – you should know when to concede or when to proceed. But how can you fight for someone that you love if you know from the beginning that you are already lost? And even if you fight for him you know that there are lots of people who will get hurt in the process. In love, you don’t always use your heart … you just don’t think of your self. There are things that you cannot enforce your will upon no matter how you wish it. Sometimes you have to use reason, contemplate on the consequences and consider the welfare of others. Your senses should not be clouded by your emotions otherwise you will end up hurting a lot of people, including yourself, since emotion carries us beyond reason. Sometimes you have to restrain yourself because if you push your will you might wake up one day trekking the wrong path. But if you play your cards right I believe you might rise to the occasion; and the best play, I suppose, is to let him go no matter how much you love him because that is the right thing to do. Yeah, it sucks. In fact, it can sometimes strip you of the will to live. But one way or the other you’ll just have to let him go. It is hard to bid goodbye to the person you truly love, but it is harder to accept the truth that you can not be together again. It is hard to utter the word goodbye especially to the person you dreamt to be with forever and built your dream together. I’m not sure which is more important: both of you together no matter how wrong it is, or apart even if you’re madly in-love with him because it is right? Ahhhhh … The thing is, you have to bid goodbyes because you know it is right and selfless. After all, true love sometimes means “sacrifice”; and parting ways does not necessarily mean that the love you both shared ceases. “Love”, at least for the time being, have to take a back seat. Who knows, good things might come out from this. Besides, I recon that if someone is really meant for you even if you split-up for a long time your paths will again traverse (or something to that effect). And that is when “wrong” is already “right”, when “no” is already “okay” and when “taboo” is already “permissible”. Besides, fate, sometimes, offers us a second chance. PayongKA-IBIGAN Physical and Occupational Therapy 2018
Posted on: Wed, 20 Aug 2014 14:21:05 +0000
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