Friends CAN go awhile without talking.....BUT when months and years go by and not even the slightest bit of concern or how are you.....When you dont care about the tragedies that happen to your friend, when you tell your friend you have new friends and dont have time or cant be their friend......thats a good way to know youre not real friends.... Its not a simple as us not talking every day....Weve always had our breaks in conversation....I dont begrudge you YOUR life to live YOUR way, I never have.....but I dont want friends I cant turn to or talk to OR who have to hide behind a profile to talk to me when I have done NOTHING but been there for them....... So youre right......but it wasnt as simple as that...and if people can come into your life and make you turn on me, or tell you to not talk to me and you just say OK, even though I havent done not one thing to hurt you and would ALWAYS respect the distance you ask for, then youre not a friend I can depend on, and is that really being a friend. Im not angry, but over the years I was forced to see that you didnt want to be my friend anymore and I stopped depending on that friendship. It doesnt matter if Im there for you, or how loyal I would be to you...... you leave and dont come back and just dont care.....Id rather just be an just someone you know than to think you are my friend, want that, trust that, and then for whatever reason you just go cold and expect me to shut my mouth, demand no answers, and like it and support whatever girl you are throwing in my face....but I cant talk to you or know you or the new people wont understand....They dont know me, so if they have a bad opinion its only because you gave them one...... So I respect where you are in your life, that you changed, I never knew you and that you have moved on with other people..... You dont owe me you and i wont demand it. I DO understand that things change and sometimes you have to do what you feel is right and only YOU know what that is......but Im still human and have feelings and when people tell you they cant be your friend what do you.....When a friend ignores you for years, what do you do? Would you think I was a great friend...... Im not saying Im right or better, but I would never have put ANY relationship over at least being a friend to you.......So I guess youre telling me what I learned.... we werent real friends..... I hear you. Be great.
Posted on: Thu, 16 Jan 2014 21:43:10 +0000
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