From A Friends Wall. LADIES THERES MORE TO IT THAN KISSES AND HUGS 1).Yesterdays Wives____________Welcome my husband.Hope the office was not stressful.Your favorite food is ready.Let me lead you to the bathroom first,then you take your dinner.You look so tired.Am sure youll be okay after taking your dinner.Welcome my one and only. Todays Wives_______________Please dont put unnecessary pressure on me.You can go to the fridge pick up the stew,microwave it and boiled the remaining rice.I am your wife and not your cook. 2).Yesterdays Wives___________Darling stop thinking about our lack of money.its going to be temporary.God will see us through and we are going to come out of it stronger. Afterall, we can still feed ourselves and the children.We need to give the Almighty that glory.I am with you through thick and thin,my husband,the owner of my dowry. Todays Wives________________Look I am sick and tired of living in this abject poverty with you.Why did you bring me to your house when you know that you are not ready for marriage?Every day is one complaint or the other.Are you the complainant general of Nigeria.We dont have cars,our house is in Tudunwada,when your mates are in GRAs.( Or replace with Agege and Park view) Look if you dont find solutions to your problems,you will come back and not find me in this your rotten house. 3).Yesterdays Wives____________My husband,we only have 3 children,dont you think we should have more.You know children are gifts and mercies from God.And the more the merrier. Todays Wives_______________Look am sick and tired of this marriage.You wont allow me to rest by your constant urge to have more children.I am okay with our two children.i cant allow you to spoil my figure 8 by bearing another child.You are so wicked that I feel you want to spoil my psychedelic looks. If you dare touch me,I will sue you for rape. 4).Yesterdays Wives___________My husband,take heart and dont worry.i shall go with you to Zaria.Your being transferred from the glitterati of Abuja to Zaria might be a blessing in disguise.We shall take the advantage of ABU there to do our MBA and Doctorate respectively.. Some disappointments could be a blessing. Todays Wives______________Me I cant follow you to Zaria ooo .God forbid bad thing.From Abuja to Zaria?I cant cope with such a demotion.To start living in a village.You had better look for another wife.I cant live in a city without silver birds,Amigo supermarket or Dunes 5)Yesterdays Wives__________My husband,I have enough clothes.This N50.000 you are giving me,please keep it and save for a rainy day. Todays Wives________________Why are you so stingy?Do you have super glue in your palms?What an insult.What kind of shopping do you want me to do with N50.000?What can I buy?Is it Swiss lace or Dubai gold.I am disappointed in you.Your mates are giving their wives $5000 to shop,here you are humiliating me with Naira.I dont blame you.It is because I refused to marry Chief Fernadze thats why you are messing up with me. *Copied After going through I asked myself lady which category do you fall under?.... Im not criticizing women or trying to act as an anti-feminist and I dont write cause its so easy to write but because I want us to look into this matter and I know we still got good ladies who knows what marriage is and respect this institution too but what we see today is the opposite of what was obtained during our mothers age I know that not all women of yesterday could endure in their marriages but they werent negative stories like whats been heard today Ladies rush into marriages without a proper orientation from their mothers, aunts and other women around them, so I urge all our mothers, big sisters and aunts to orient our young ladies and stop acting busy towards training our girls while they are young cause if you dont your sons, brothers and grand sons will fall a prey to these ladies and it will still revolve back to you And to our ladies; Please Ladies dont rush into marriage because your peer groups are getting married *Dont get married because of his wealth it might finish but get marry because you wanna help manage his finances *Dont rush in to marriage because hes handsome, got six packs but get married because he will make a good father *Dont rush into marriage because age aint on your side cause you might rush into it and never live to tell the story And lastly we need to develop the mindset of being able to differentiate the girlfriend/boyfriend relationship from marriage cause theres more to marriage than kisses and hugs And please husbands learn to appreciate your wives and love them and not because they are help met you take them for granted and always remember that you men need them to attain that height you are aspiring,so remeber that your progress is being equated by the way you treat your wives
Posted on: Sat, 05 Apr 2014 16:06:55 +0000
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