***From A Reader*** NO BASHING!!! I need to rant. I have been with my husband for 10 years, married for 8. When we first moved in together, I was packing up some of his things and found some notes from other girls, saying that they know he has a gf, but if he every wanted to do things, give them a call. I didnt think anything of it, cuz he was my first real bf, so I was excited. A few years laters, he is working out of town, so my daughter and I go see him. About 2 am, some lady knocks on the door and he jumps up real quick and goes outside with her. The next morning I ask him about it. He said she just wanted to borrow some money and that it was nothing. I just blew it off. Fast forward to 2 years ago. My husband is now living out of town for work. He lives a couple of hours away. One day I got an email from a lady I didnt know containing some of his facebook messages between him and a friend of ours. He asked if she was working nights and she said no. He said to sneak over later on that night and she said good cuz she needed her fix. I was really upset and asked him about it. He started freaking out wondering where I got those and then he called the friend asking her if she knew who this lady was. He denied everything. We had a rough patch for a bit over that, but we worked things out. Last year, I had another baby. This friend had a baby also, 2 weeks after I had mine, but she wont tell anyone who the babys daddy is. I really didnt pay very much attention to her anymore, until my husband comes home one day and says he saw the friend and her baby. He just kept going on and on about how cute the baby was. This was a few weeks before the babies 1st birthdays. I got on the friends facebook just to see a pic of the baby and her daughter looks exactly like my son and daughter. Now every time one of the other babys pics comes up, my daughter asks if that was her as a baby or if my son sees it he will smile and say sissy. Now here is something else. My mother-in-law does our bills. She has been saying for the last couple of years that she wants to give them back. When I said that I would take them over, she said no, I dont think I want you to do them. I pissed me off, but my husband wont do anything about it. He always takes his mothers side and not mine. SO Im thinking that the reason she doesnt want me to take over the bills is because he is having to pay child support for this other kid, or that he has secret family down where he is living. And yes I have tried to get a house down where he his, but him and his mom keep making excuses not to get one. So its like we have been separated for a couple of years, but are still legally married.
Posted on: Wed, 28 May 2014 12:15:00 +0000
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