***From A Reader*** NO BASHING!!! There seems to be a lot of debate on here as to who is at fault. The partner or the other women (who knows of the relationship). I say both. Ive been with my husband 10yrs now and weve always had a very trusting and honest relationship. A job change last year meant less time together and I guess we started to take each other for granted. 3 months ago we sat down and tried to talk things through. We had drifted apart, felt rejected by the other and were not sure if we were in love anymore. We clearly still cared for each other and it was a distressing time for us both. We were lost and didnt know which way to turn. We had a mutual female friend who we (stupidly) both confided in. She told me she didnt want to know, or be involved. However, she text my husband saying he deserved better (her) and he should leave. When he text her saying no, she got really nasty. Text me a ton of abuse making me feel worthless and text him saying he was making a mistake. He told me right away what she had tried to do. It came down to jealousy we think. Anyway we talked about it and worked through our issues. In a strange way her actions helped us, because by throwing herself at him it made him realise he did still love me and owed it to our vows to at least try. So, yes. I blame both parties equally. A weaker man would have cheated, given the opportunity. But without easy, disrespectful, vindictive girls out there it would be harder for them to do so. Girls who purposely seek married/taken men are nothing but cheap, dirty whores with no self respect. Thats why I love this page, they do deserve to be outed just as much as the partner. My heart goes out to all the women on your site, I feel very lucky to have a faithful man, but no woman should have to go through the stuff I have read on here. Wannabe homewreckers...close your legs. Find a SINGLE man and stop trying to break up relationships. You give women a bad name. Married/taken men/women....if youre not happy, leave, or better still, WORK at it. Sit down, talk and TRY. Cheating is low and not the answer.
Posted on: Tue, 27 May 2014 15:15:00 +0000
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