From Anonymous: I feel like every relationship Ive had ends up in ruins. One thing after another, I just cant find someone who will truly love me. I feel like giving up entirely. Dear Anonymous, Its understandable on why you would feel like giving up, wasting so much time and effort can leave to frustration and eventually leaving yourself to feel discouraged. Love has eluded you for so long that giving up seems like the only sensible thing to do—don’t. Heres why: No matter how futile it feels, hope in finding love is never misplaced. Victory frequently depends upon refusing to accept the possibility of defeat. It matters what you say—and even what you think—about your life. Hopelessness, fed by negative attitudes and ideas, often becomes a self-fulfilling condition. Meaning, don’t think you are a failure at relationships. Say you are training to succeed. Don’t complain there is no one for you. Say you are searching for a gem of exceptionally rare quality. Don’t consider your time alone as wasted. Say that you are improving yourself so you’ll be an irresistible catch for an irresistible partner. Clinging to hope isn’t mere wishful thinking. It literally helps create the conditions you need for success. Giving up guarantees failure. Any coach of any sports team knows that the surest way to lose a game is to not show up. Simply put, there’s no reason you can’t find the love of your life if you hang in there, keep going, and stay persistent. If you want to dramatically increase your chances of “winning” a wonderful partner, start by deciding to never give up. If you’ve been burned by relationships that went sour, if you’ve grown weary of dates that lead nowhere, if you’re tired of being disappointed, realize that you are not alone. And most of all, resist the temptation to give in to hopelessness. Believe the best about yourself, and then always believe that a delightful partner is searching for you, too. After all...“There’s a lid for every pot.” ☺️ In Good Health, Kevin
Posted on: Sun, 04 Jan 2015 20:18:13 +0000
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