From Malawi Hide my Id please but post this for me. I am a Malawian girl & I have a boyfriend whom I have been living with for the past 6 years,in the first 3 years everything was Ok,we loved each other so &very much,we were the best couple in our town. Three years ago,my boyfriend left to UK,to his uncle to try his luck because he is a graduate but cannot find a good paying Job in our country. When he left I lost all his contacts,I could not find him on Whatsapp,twitter&here on Facebook I was worried &was only waiting for him to contact me using his new contacts,as I expected,he called me&once again we were happy,he sent me Messages whether on twitter or whatsapp,he called me evenly &once more I was happy only lonely probably because he was Far. His second year of staying in UK,was also fine but things are turning worse this year that I could not hold my heart but ask for help here cos even my friends have failed to help me. Earlier this year he stopped calling me &when I called him,he reluctantly picked my calls,then he told me he had lost his job &that things were not easy. I understood him whole heartedly,in turn I called him evenly so as to make him forget the hardships he was facing,contrary to him he never picked my calls &sometimes he would give his phone to his friends to answer my calls,one friend of his failed to tell me where he had gone one night when I called,he even failed to mention the name my boyfriend saved me in his phone when I told him to tell him I called,I was surprised when this friend of his asked me who I was to him because the number had an unknown name to mention,I hanged the phone while tears run down my chicks,I could not understand my boyfriend anymore. A very close friend of his once called &asked me why my facebook profile was still saying I was single when I was in a more than relationship with my boyfriend,I thought he had an idea,I subsequently changed my profile from single to am in a relationship with my boyfriend,had I known what this would bring I was never going to change the profile or perhaps it was a blessing in disguise for it revealed so much. When my boyfriend got to know of the changes I had made he sent me a message in my inbox where he asked me why I changed my profile &i told him the exact reason that it was true,we were in a relationship &there was no reason for us to hide it. I thought we had resolved the matter but to my surprise,despite his usual complaint that his usually broke he called me &sweet talked me bout the effects the change in profile would do,what surprised me was the fact that the issue of profile change was the main reason he had called,he never asked bout my life &everything as he normally did,as if this was not enough,he sent me messages thru twitter &whatsapp an act that he had stopped so many months ago,the messages were all saying that he was not happy with the post &if I truly loved him I should remove it immediately& now I have girls sending me messages in my inbox askin me whether its true the man in question is my boyfriend,some even threatening me to stay away from my own boyfriend. Am very confused,because he recently called me &told me not to be disappointed because he loves me so much &that am the woman hell marry immediately when he comes back,am still confused because I cannot understand why he doesnt want it (the profile) that way if he loves me like he claims,I have so many unanswered questions,am I not beautiful enough to let the world know am his girlfriend,maybe he has other girlfriends here on facebook &his scared this might dent his Identity? Or maybe he has given up on our relationship &because theres no good reason to go about telling me he just chose to be away from me? Admin,am confused,stressed &doesnt even know whether to continue with this relationship or not,please help me. If my English is not good enough,do not insult me but help me according to what youve heard.
Posted on: Mon, 11 Nov 2013 12:39:44 +0000
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