From The Diary Of Experience: When to Start and Stop Loving. Start loving early. Initiate by expressing your feeling. Sometimes love works like first come first serve basis. If you truly love then dont hesitate to express. As we all are human being, Until unless you express he/she might never know your feeling. Even though they are smart enough, do not assume that he/she knows your feeling. Choosing the right person is very difficult, so think before choosing the wrong ones. You love your 100% dont expect same from the other. Realization of love takes time. If you feel like seeing someone, talk to someone, feel good about everything they say, and want to spend time only with them leaving all your other things, That surely means you started loving them. If you have not given your enough time and effort then you dont deserve love. Even if you get, you cant hold it for sure. But if you have given time and it has not worked yet, then better move on, coz it will never work even if you give whole lifetime. Love is mutual, if you are unable to see it or oversee the fact then you are cheating yourself. Coz in true love both feels the same way. If you love and wait for someone to understand and love you back, its fine, there is no harm to be optimistic. But dont neglect the reality. If someone do not respond you when you ask them, they will never respond you or come back to you. Love is not being close and best friends, its always more than that. So be sure you both are in love. And dont confuse care with love, coz a friend and a lover both can care for you. But only lover will continue loving you. The most difficult situation when nobody expresses feeling directly, to understand if its love or not just try to distance yourself. Either he/she will get back immediately or you will within short time. If nobody gets back that means it was infatuation. Its very difficult to understand reality when you start loving someone and they dont. You may always feel lets try one more time and you may say lets give it another chance. But just remember it wont work. Better give the chance to somebody else and give time to the new someone, that might click. Acceptance of failure in love is the hardest thing to digest. Some ruin there career, their happiness and their life. Better be smart and ruin your feeling for them to get out of it. Time to move on is when you asked hundred query to understand him/her and he/she sent you only one answer to make you understand that they are busy of their own life. If someone loves you they will simply loves you for no reason and every reason.. Who dont they will never love you, even if you do whatever for them. Never love the one who dont trust you. They will simply not trust your love or whatever you tell them. Or simply they will not love to love you ever.
Posted on: Wed, 23 Oct 2013 12:12:36 +0000