From many days I am trying to post some happy moments of my life but every time I try, some new disturbing thing in newspaper or FB postpone it. One disturbing video of FB reminds me of one incident of my life. It was the day to get my report card signed by my parents. I performed pathetically bad so I decided to wait for Papa as he was lenient in comparison to my mother. Though I firmly believed that my poor result was not my fault, it was because of that new girl in the class who was so chatty that she didnt let me concentrate in class and so I told this same thing to Papa. He patiently listen to me and share one real story of his known family. It was about some Shanti (fictitious name of real story) who was quite quarrelsome. She had two sons and every time she said any altercation with her neighbor she used to threaten them that let my son grow up, they will teach you a lesson and her son who were 4 or 6 years of age used to looked at her blankly. As time passed by and her sons grew, people started complaining about them Shanti your sons were standing at corner for eve teasing, Shanti your sons were standing at daru ka theka, Shanti your sons had altercation with Shayam and they beat him mercilessly and on these complains Shanti had some crammed replies Arre that bastard of Bela is into such things he even visits brothel, despo! He must have took my sons for eve teasing, or that Kallu is such a drunkard he must have forced my sons to go to daru ka theka, or Arre they are young blood who will fight if they wont , we elders shouldnt get into such things. After few year one of his son became the gangster and another became unemployed and hence useless, drunkard. One day her gangster son came to her and said I wish you didnt have threaten our neighbor on our name, I wish you had not BLAMED others for our flaws, I wish you had stopped me when I started fighting with people on minor issues, I wish you had scolded me for eve teasing, I wish you had pushed me to study, I wish........ So the moral of the story Papa said is to accept your flaws and dont blame others for your failures as blaming can give you just one thing and this is more failures, so instead of blaming others INTROSPECT and find the flaws in your efforts and personality. I didnt become excellent student after listening to that story but yes I can claim to become a better person who dont blame others and hence have overcome from many flaws within me. The thing which reminded me of that story is the video I have shared here where one Pakistani accusing a country which has worlds 4th most powerful army, for this cowardice act of killing innocent school kids, Pakistans army stands at 15th by the way. Where Bharat is improving in all spears, the economy and health sector of Pakistan are sinking day by day. Why? Because instead of introspection they are playing blame game and hence inviting more failures. Waise its good to see that their maximum limit to challenge Bharat is a cricket match in which Bharat has 2 world cups and Pakistan has 1.
Posted on: Sat, 20 Dec 2014 07:55:31 +0000
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