GENERAL GOOD MANNERS • Think of the others first. (Phil 2:4-5; Rom 12:10). • Be hospitable and friendly. (1 Pe 4:9; Rom 12:13; Pro 18:24). • Always say, “Thank you” - this is a way of praising others and one of the keys of good manners; not forgetting “Excuse me”, “Please”, “You are welcome”, “Hello” and “Goodbye”. (Col 3:15; 1 Thes 5:18; 3 Jn 14). • Do not be boastful, arrogant or loud - always exercise restraint. Let your deeds speak for themselves. (Tit 1:8; 1 Cor 13:4-5) • Listen before speaking. Never interrupt. Look people in the eye, and listen carefully. (Js 1:19). • Before speaking to others consider what effect your words will have. Dont say thoughtless, unkind things. Pause and weigh your words carefully and say them in the right manner. (Pr 15:23, 12:25, 25:11). • Never whisper, as it makes the person who cant hear feel left out. (Ps 41:7) • Never point or stare, especially at people with disabilities or those who are “different”. (Phil 2:3; Rom 2:11) • Be thankful and show appreciation for gifts, help, etc. Write “thank you cards” rather than sending e-mails to show your appreciation. (Col 3:15; Eph 5:20) • Give compliments - a fundamental rule of good manners is to give. (Ac 20:35) • Be considerate and do not embarrass others - treat others as you would like to be treated, and think of how you can put them at ease. Never demean anyone with rude jokes or an unwelcome nickname. (1 Cor 13:4; Phil 2:4; Lk 10:27). • Do not criticize or complain - a person with good manners is above criticizing others or complaining about circumstances. Negativity in any form is to be avoided. If you hear gossip, dont join in, be indifferent to it. If you disagree with others, do so respectfully. Dont verbally attack or condemn them. (1 Cor 13:5-7; Phil 2:14; Eph 4:29). • Never be ruffled. Be a calming, happy influence in any stressful situation and maintain your composure. (Pr 16:32; Psa 37:8). • Respect peoples time and be punctual. If you make an appointment, arrive on time or even a bit early. If you are going to be late, always call and let them know. Never arrive early for a social engagement; your host may still be getting dressed. (Eph 5:16; Matt 5:37). • When you give your word or promise something, then you must fulfill it; or get word to the person promised early enough that no harm is done. Your explanation as to WHY you cannot keep your promise must be perfectly acceptable and not due to your own fault. (Js 5:12; Ecc 5:4-5). • If you borrow something it should be treated more carefully than if it were your own. It should also be returned promptly and if possible in better-than-original condition. When someone lends you money and you owe it to return this loan, then NEVER forget or delay this payment back. (Deut 23:21).
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