GOD will be deciding who your TRUE FRIENDS are going to be in this life and who will not. Just because someone may be a saved and born again Christian does not mean this person has their act together in the Lord. Some people have become too judgmental and too critical in their walks with the Lord. Some have become too arrogant and pompous, thinking they have all the answers to everything. They will tend to look down on anyone else who is not operating at the knowledge levels they are operating at. Some have become so flaky in their walks with the Lord, that they have lost touch with reality and you won’t be able to connect with any of them. FALSE VICTIMS: If somebody identifies as a victim (even a strong pessimistic attitude toward life) I keep my distance. Sooner or later people who identify as a victim are going to paint you as an oppressor. Victims need to be victims of somebody, and you can count on it that that somebody is going to be you eventually. People who want to be victims because if they are victims they don’t have to take responsibility for their lives and they think they will attract help or a rescuer. BULLIES: The quickest way to identify a bully is to notice what a person laughs at. Bullies do not laugh at themselves, they laugh at others. If somebody makes fun of others but isn’t self deprecating, they’re a taker and not a giver. I keep my distance from people who can’t laugh at themselves and have zero friends who aren’t objective about themselves and others. There’s an entire Pandora’s box that goes along with this personality and I’m not interested. Bullies protect others on the condition that others submit. That’s an unhealthy relationship. Get some strength and learn to protect yourself. You don’t need them to do that for you. OVERLY RELIGIOUS: I love people who have a sincere, open and honest faith. These are some of my favorite people.This goes along with bullying, to be honest. It’s all about controlling others. When somebody’s faith helps them realize their own depravity and walk in honesty, I want them close, but when somebody uses religion to gain authority or for abuse, I’m out. These are the type of people who will destroy or try to control you using Gods Word. Unsafe people are self-righteous instead of humble. Unsafe people only apologize instead of changing their behavior. Unsafe people seem to have it all together instead of admitting their weaknesses.
Posted on: Wed, 12 Nov 2014 18:05:51 +0000
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