GOOD ADVICES FOR GIRLS: 1. A man wont let go if he really loves u. - Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell. 2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship. - There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on & be open to a man who will truly love you. 3. Do not get hang up on your past. - Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship è same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didnt guard him enough or you didnt make him happy enough. 4. Do not look into images. - How many times have you met a girl who didnt have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your supposedly perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you. 5. Always have your own set of rules. - Set your limits on how far youd go for a guy. Its perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as its worth it. And it’s worth it if the guy is treating u right. 6. Do not be scared to lose him. - Dont be scared that hell break up with you. Once you are afraid of losin him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it & speak up. 7. Avoid calling your guy. - It’ a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if its the guy whos calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But its a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable). 8. There is a guy who will value you. - There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So dont lose hope. Dont settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also, do not believe him when he says its just the way he really is. Hes not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into u anymore. 9. Always be the only one, no matter what. - Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just cant get rid of for whatever reason. If u truly believe that he loves you & for some reason, he cant leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress. 10. He must respect you. - No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards u. 11. If he fooled you, end it. - Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect è person again. 12. Never start a relationship the wrong way. - Do not steal another girls man, for whatever reason. Nor should u enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back @ ur ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life. 13. Do not force yourself into a relationship. - Do not get into a relationship just because ur friends are getting impatient with ur dating escapades & the one hasnt come yet. Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc.. If yu are even thinking of these things, u have not fallen in love yet. 14. Do not settle. - If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love & happiness in his life. 15. A relationship has to have love. - Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making è relationship work. And believe me, keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties. 16. Dont be afraid to be single. - Its fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever u want. You are free. You can date whomever you want & u get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle. 17. Be a good girl. - Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending è rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years). If u compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled. 18. Love without limits. - Whether u loved & gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if è relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if u gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didnt give your all, you get hurt for nothing. 19. You will get over him. - Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another. 20. Be the one. - Act like you are the one. Dont be a nagger. Dont hinder his gimmicks. Dont give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Dont be easy. Dont be like every other girl he had in his life. A man wont let go, if he really loves you..
Posted on: Tue, 28 Jan 2014 13:30:09 +0000