GOOD RELATIONSHIPS COME FROM HAVING THE SKILLS TO PRODUCE THEM People often want a ten relationship but they are both fives. You would never have the kind of relationship you want until you possess the relationship skills to produce it. It just cant happen. You cannot win the supper bowl if you cant block, tackle, and pass. We can only have relationships that equal our own ability. So if we want the great things that relationships offer-like love, security, and growth- then we have to be people capable of building love, providing security, and fostering growth. The problem in the dating world is that people focus all their energy in finding the one and not on the person they are becoming. But even if they found the one they would never be able to make it work without the necessary skills. Lasting love comes from having the skills and ability to create and maintain love. So if you want to have good relationships, do not just look for the right people (although its important), but work on having the skills that produce the kind of relationships you want. And that starts by treat others the same way you want them to treat you. Give better than you get. When someone does something that is offending the one who knows how to give better than he getd, quickly turns the situation around and swallows his pride and apologizes. Before you speak make sure your speech is filled with the skills of love. Whatever you say is either building love or tearing it down. Words can either make people feel like criminals or like kings, they can lift peoples hearts to places theyve never been or they can drag them down to the dark places they were, they can heal the heart ache or make it worse. You will eat the fruit of what you say and do in your relationships, day after day and year after year. Build the skills to say the things that produce love, and you will find love.
Posted on: Tue, 05 Nov 2013 15:15:17 +0000
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