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Getting honest with ourselves is the most basic requirement for getting off the Drama triangle. Getting off the triangle is impossible without self-honesty. Telling our truth is a key way of taking responsibility. We then must be willing to take necessary action for whatever that truth reveals. Of course, when feelings are denied, honesty is impossible. Remember that denial comes out of negative self judgment. If we have decided on some level that we cannot accept our thoughts, behavior or feelings than, chances are, we will not be able to admit we have them. It’s too painful to admit something about ourselves that we have judged as unacceptable. We must practice self acceptance if we are truly going to be able to be honest with ourselves and others. Living in reality requires truth. To tell the truth, we must first know what it is. When we react out of denied feelings and unconscious programming, we cannot possibly know our personal truth. This means we will not be in touch with reality. There will be hidden agendas and dishonesty. Only by knowing our truth, can we begin to speak from a place of personal integrity. Then exiting the triangle becomes possible. ❤
Posted on: Mon, 09 Sep 2013 07:12:43 +0000

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