Getting Married in Todays world has became most difficult and crucial thing . We all had discussed the causes like #Dowry , #Very_Fair_Mania , #Getting_away from Deen. But there is one more Major root cause of it . In the time of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and Sahabas . They used to help each other to find Bride & Groom for their daughters & sons . They used to marry girls from their Families , Friends , Acquaintance . When the daughter of Umar (R.A) got divorcé , Prophet pbuh offered proposal for Her , Not just to take care of her but also to release the burden of his beloved friend , As Hadrat Umar (R.A) was very worried about his daughter Bibi Hafsa (R.A) There are so many examples as how the Sahabas also sent marriage proposals and help their friends to make them free from responsibilities. But now a days people has became so selfish and shy to do this . We dont want to marry in relatives . Our relatives dont want to marry us . Our friends dont want to help us . We dont want to help each other in finding suitable grooms & brides . We are so bold that can make profiles on or other matrimonial sites , we can give ads in newspapers . But we are ashamed to help our friends , we are so stupid that we are ready to trust strangers for the big decision like marriage . We are ready to be betrayed by unknowns. We are ready to play blind . But we are not ready to marry our cousin or friend or one whom we know . We are not ready to approach our friends for our brothers and sisters . Remember if you help someone to find the suitable groom or bride you will get sawab and also Allah will help you to achieve yours . Hundreds of sisters are sitting at home getting old for the right proposals . This problem has been created by us , only we can get rid off it by following the Sunnah of helping each other getting good marriage alliance .
Posted on: Wed, 03 Dec 2014 06:46:43 +0000
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