Good Friend Dearest admin, pa post naman please? please please po Nakakatuwa nung minsang may lumapit sakin na isang student. She was rather distraught and told me that she just found out that her boyfriend cheated on her. Sayang kasi sir, me sparks na e! she told me in between sobs. Sparks? anung sparks sparks yan? i ask as i happen to realize that im getting old since i dont know what kind of sparks she was saying. akala ko kasi sir magbabago na sya eh she continued, ignoring my sparks question. teka, what do you mean magbabago? ibig mong sabihin there was an incident like this before? Dito ko naalala bigla yung isa kong student na me crush dito sa girl na to. o? edi just leave that scumbag and move one. i believe si ___ ay patay na patay sayo and then i suddenly saw her change her mood but casually replied: siiir, hes just a good friend. and there you have it... the dreaded friend zone. Kawawa naman si good friend. i mean girls, alam nyo naman na nice guy image sya.. or kundi man torpe, pero that didnt stop him from giving you the best hes got diba? this good friend believes in doing things right. he has a process, a moral code that he follows because he believes that you should be handled with care not because youre that fragile but simply because youre that important to him. hes that ear that listens to you rant about your crush, your triumphs, your failures, your moronic ideas and insights (yes sometimes you can be moronic). He was the one who held your hand and faced your fears and without you knowing it, he nurtured you to grow, no matter how petty and childish you would get, he was the mature one that showed you how everything made sense; he fought for your passions (and sometimes even your battles) hinde mo lang talaga napapansin. He forgot your wants and focused on everything you needed. and in the end he cant make the cut just because hes too nice? eto na yata yung pinakamasakit eh... yung after all is said and done... when the dust finally settles down and he finally gathers up the courage to tell you how he feels ang unang word na lalabas sa bibig mo: Kuya... sorry... friends lang talaga eh... walang sparks... (syet.) Alam mo he could have just easily walked away pero he didnt, he remained a good friend because he preferred to be a good friend than to be nothing at all. he did this knowing full well that its gonna hurt. martyr? really. Masochist? maybe. In love with you? DEFINITELY. I would always tell my students that courtship is a preparation stage for marriage. if thats the case, eh, bakit pa kayo nagsasayang ng oras ninyo sa mga douchebag na boyfriends? pipol, akala ko ba the reason that you enter into a relationship is to eventually find someone wholl be with you always? eh bakit andami pang paligoy ligoy? dahil ba mas thrilling yung bad boy? hindi ba nakakapagod din na gawing project mo si bad boy hoping one day na parang tulad sa mga teleserye, na marerealize nya ikaw ang lahat lahat nya at magbabago sya bigla just for you? so hows that working for you? But really, honestly, ultimately, whats the ending? you getting hurt. And shutting off the world around you. including mr. good friend. girls, tao din sya. He can get hurt too. he can get tired too. What you don’t know is that someone else is out there, and she won’t be as foolish as you. When you realize all you really want is the good friend who cares about you too much, it’s going to be too late. Some other girl will be able to see how great he is, and she won’t waste a minute and shell be his universe. Shell be that spark where his sun and stars collide. and when that time comes, youll just wake up one day and realize what youve lost and try as you might to bring it back... there was never anything to bring back at the first place. Ika nga ni Sarah Geronimo...there was never an us... So you lost your Augustus Waters and, I promise you, to him you were Hazel Grace. He may have loved you too soon and it was too crazy and too much, but guys like Waters don’t happen every day. sometimes dont happen at all.. He was the guy you were supposed to end up with, who makes everything change. And thats just unfair right? is there still hope? mahahabol mo pa kaya sya pag meron na syang iba? sabi nila if one door closes, theres still an open window.. funny as it may sound once that good friend finds that someone meant for him and close the doors on you.. there MIGHT be a window left open but only for you to peek through... Because in reality... unlike movies, we dont get second chances. the fault dear Brutus is Not in our stars, but in ourselves. -William Shakespeare, Julius Cesar Prof 1996 College of Education
Posted on: Thu, 03 Jul 2014 02:55:45 +0000
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