Good Morning Great Mind!!! Once. Again thanks for your wishes yesterday!!!back to our free style writing!!! Lolz How to Get Your Dream Husband The foundation laid before marriage is critical to the success of that marriage. The choice of a life partner is too serious to be treated like lottery. Getting your dream husband increases your chances of happiness in marriage and the rest of your life. 1. Place yourself where you can be easily found. Don’t be a recluse. Don’t be a shrew. Avoid sticking to another girl 24-7: it makes things difficult for prospects who want to get close to you. Avoid always attending events with your brother. Most people may assume he is your fiancé and keep off. 2. We are in modern times, but please don’t “woo” a man. Men are born with the hunter’s instincts: they love the chase and the eventual victory. You can set the stage for him to do the chase but please don’t do the chase to avoid regrets in future. Even in the animal world, the males do the chase! 3. Play hard to get but please don’t overdo things, to avoid frustrating the man. 4. Even if you are head-over-heels in love with him at first sight, please don’t jump into bed with him so fast, especially on the first date or shortly after knowing him. What men get so easily they value so little. They assume that the “generosity” you have shown to them so easily is also shown to other men. 5. If he has not officially married you, please refrain from sleeping over or spending weekends/weeks at his. If he insists, just remind him that it is a no-no in your family. He may feel bad, but he will value you the more. The more you spend nights at his place, the more he looks for flimsy excuses like your snoring or farting as a reason not to continue with the relationship. 6. As much as you can, don’t ask him for money or gifts. Don’t even ask at all within a short period of meeting him. Even if he is Mr Giver, reject such money/gifts now and then firmly but nicely. Most men who shower ladies with gifts usually believe that they have “bought” such ladies, so they can do as they wish. Men love to spend on their women, if they can afford to, but they also hate women who pester them with demands of this and that. They assume that it is their money that the lady is after, not them. 7. If he is up to 28 years old and you are in your 20s (and have had a relationship for up to one year) but he avoids introducing you to any of his family members or religious leaders, and insists on having a secret relationship with, then let your alarm bell start ringing. Please ask him if he works with the secret service! 8. If a man is abusive (verbally or physically) or disrespectful to his relatives, aides, subordinates, or ex in your presence, get the message. It is just a matter of time before you join the list! 9. If a man is unfaithful during courtship, don’t hope that he will become a saint after marriage. 10. If there is something you cannot tolerate in a man, call the relationship off in time. Don’t hope that you will change him later. Most marriages are unhappy because someone is trying hard to change the other. People hardly change, and they hate to be changed. 11. Don’t “marry” the man, no matter how old you are. That is seen as desperation. Even if you are richer than the man, give him financial support during the marriage rites/wedding. But don’t be the one financially sponsoring your own wedding by giving him all the money he will use to marry you. A man who has no scruples about the woman being the one marrying him will most likely be a leech you will feed all your life, while he may be using your money to feed another woman he really loves. 12. Don’t pay too much attention on the ephemerals like height, looks, complexion, etc, but rather pay attention on internal and substantial matters like character, view about life and dreams. 13. Be concerned about having a God-fearing husband, not a religious one. A religious man can do anything, but a God-fearing man has a conscience and will never think of certain things. 14. Comfort is sweet, money is great, but the sweetest husband a woman can have is one that not only loves her, but also respects and cherishes her. Even if every other thing fails, she is sure that she is in safe and loving hands. *we will get there* thank me latter
Posted on: Thu, 04 Dec 2014 08:07:52 +0000
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