Good Morning all; I love and hate when a cold is breaking up and I have a Productive cough Time for a touch of love and Papis Advice for today on a snow covered (lightly) Tuesday morning. I am going to start this with a singularly one sided statement BUT it does work both ways. The biggest mistake a man can make is to give another man the chance to make his woman smile. Think about that for a minute and again I reiterate that it does work both ways here folks. If you are NOT the one making your partner/mate/wife/husband or whatever term fits smile then someone else will and if that person is the only bringing the smile to their face and the warmth that goes with it to their heart..........You are losing them. It may or may not ever get to the point of separation but you will have lost their heart and that will be the biggest loss you ever face if you love them at all. Sometimes it is the tiniest of things that bring out that smile. A small act of kindness or caring that you have long ago given up showing and doing. A slight, gentle touch of the hand, a nod when they say or do something well, a compliment about their appearance or their accomplishment. Tiny little things that you just know that they know you feel but life is too busy or mundane for you to mention them. YOU do not have the time or the need to take time to be extra nice because they know that you care. Do they REALLY, or have they begun to doubt because you never say that their smile ir radiant, that their hair smells nice. Dammit folks if you want to keep the fire burning and the love strong then YOU have to be the one that brushes her hair back so that you can see her lovely eyes. YOU have to be the one that says that his butt looks great in those jeans. YOU have to be the one that brags up their accomplishments and YOU have to be the one flirting with them at every opportunity. Do you REALLY give a damn about the relationship? Then YOU have to SHOW it daily. It is so damn easy to slip into that routine and to get into the position of taking for granted that they know how you feel and that THEY are the one that you want/admire and yes LUST for. Get your ass busy and show her/him today or someone else will be only too happy to do it.
Posted on: Tue, 09 Dec 2014 14:40:35 +0000
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