Good afternoon to you and your listeners. I first of all want to say kudos to you for the good work you doing. You helping a lot of people and a lot more are learning from the stories you put across. I am a 49 year old man with a lone daughter who is now 27. I have a wife and a reputable job. About a year ago I had problems with my wife, which I did not treat well and it nearly escalated into divorce. My wife left me to go rent an apartment on her own and warned me never to come near her. It was bad times. I knew I had wronged her, but nothing I could do would bring her to forgive me and come back. I was devastated and took to drinking. I was out of control and started drinking heavily. I spent all my time at a pub in town drinking my money and life away. It got so bad I lost my job in the process. One day at the pub a young gentleman who should be in his early thirties approached me. He had noticed my frequent presence in the pub and was somehow concerned. I told him what was happening to me, and with a smile, he offered to help. Since then, we became good friends. He was a playboy. He was young, handsome, had a good job and drives a fancy car. And he was there with a different girl almost every night. But somehow, I benefitted from his lifestyle; he used his playboy skills and experience to help me. He taught me some dos and don’ts that I never knew and when I applied them it really worked. Within months, my wife was discussing moving back to my house. He saved my once seemingly hopeless marriage. He also helped me acquire a new job which I am so grateful for and during all these times I was bent on talking him out of his whorish life and settle down since he is not getting any younger. He eventually told me that he has taken my advice and has planned to settle down. He promised to introduce the lady to me on the day my wife moves back into my house in a bid to make the day a special one for all of us. Well, the day finally came, and I went with my wife to wait for them at our selected restaurant, where we had planned to have a grand dinner. But our daughter refused to come with us. She said she had a date too and we just couldn’t convince her. Now this is what I am not comfortable with, my friend showed up at last but the lady she was with was my daughter, my only daughter. Everyone else was happy about the development but I was not. I know this guy. He has broken the hearts of a thousand and one girls and I am so much aware of it. I could remember how he laughs it off anytime I complain when he shows up with a different girl. He uses to say “ME TRAP NO AKYE BAYLA FOFOR)”, which directly means his trap has caught a new mouse. I know he is the reason I have my marriage back and a new job to feed my family and I am so grateful to him. But I keep wondering if he really loves my daughter and wants to settle down or she is just another “BAYLA” that his trap has caught. My daughter also seems to be into him and I don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings but I am confused. What do i do? Should i disagree with this union or i should give my friend the chance to prove himself at the risk of hurting my daughter?
Posted on: Mon, 20 Oct 2014 15:46:53 +0000
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