Good morning! So, this mornings message comes from an excerpt from Dr. NerdLoves, Change Your Attitude: How Your Mentality Affects Your Love Life. Negative beliefs and attitudes become self-fulfilling prophesies because when you give into them, you make them come true. You will see everything in a negative light, missing out on opportunities (or not being willing to take advantage of them) and focusing on the bad. You’re perpetually on the look-out for the next shoe to drop or the next thing to go completely wrong. After a while, you become bitter and resentful of everything. It starts to feel like the universe itself conspires against you. And let me tell you, when you’re walking around with a chip on your shoulder and a little black rain cloud following you, you’re going to chase off people who might well have been attracted to you. And when you do, it becomes further evidence that these beliefs are correct and justified, thus reinforcing them and perpetuating the ugly cycle. I suggest we all take some time to read the full article...as it has some insightful information and suggestions that are not only applicable to intimate relationships... but to life altogether. Determine your Mindset and have a Magnificent Monday!!!
Posted on: Mon, 10 Nov 2014 12:31:21 +0000
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