Group Input Needed: Please post anonymously. I dont really understand. How can so many moms accept their child being given to an abusive father? The court not having good judgment and giving these fathers custody? And I feel like I so many moms are just accepting it. these childrens lives are going to be ruined....they arent going to receive the love they absolutely deserve and they are going to be brainwashed into thinking the n attitudes of their fathers is normal! They are going to be told that their loving mothers are horrible or dont love them, etc, etc. They are going to be used and bought off and just so hurt. Depending on the abuse, they are going to severely struggle as older children and teenagers when their is a mom who knows the love they need and is waiting right there to give it to them. God gave us these children to protect. I used to trust the government and still couldnt accept the reality when someone told me. But Im starting to believe it now because Ive read all the real stories from so many parents. I just dont understand. My child is literally being brainwashed. He is buying them suddenly with trips and things. When for so many years, he has hardly showed any interest in them or their life or what matters to them. Yet the reality is that our child has been closed off from others for large amounts of time in the past. My child cannot see that. For a while, our child started to draw their own conclusions, just from the fathers actions, but now the father is constantly brainwashing again. I mean it is to the point where my child was coached with things to say in court at one point. Are there any helpful ways to teach our child about boundaries and how sometimes people pretend to be nice, etc? Weve been watching movies where they cannot tell that the mean person, the small or large villain, isnt nice. Thankfully, I explained it to them that sometimes people act nice but they do mean things and they are just pretending to be kind. He now sees these villains as villains, which I think other children without an N father might immediately recognize. I just dont understand.....how moms accept a court order where your child is going to be raised by an abusive father? I just dont understand.
Posted on: Sat, 15 Feb 2014 18:32:13 +0000
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