Group Input (and Narc Decoder) Needed: some advice and support needed: Recently Ive been bombarded with emails from ex-n (just sent one recently for decoder). He is really pushing my buttons and trying hard to pick a fight (I think because Ive been ignoring him). Heres a new email I received after letting him know Ive planned a trip to my Moms (she lives far away so there is a lot of coordinating beforehand without him...the same as we have been doing for over 8 years). I would love some thoughts and advice on how to carry on being grey rock... which is proving to be hard when he triggers the Mamma Bear in me as I know the manipulation he pulls with the kids to guilt them into behaving for his own comfort. The latest order was very vague about the times we switch custody, where we all know with Narcs it needs to be as specific as possible... or they interpret their own way! ME: I am taking the kids to see my Mom from Aug 7th (a.m.) to Aug 12th (p.m.-M to 13th). Also, there are two nights I have to work at the club next month. I have to work on Saturday July 12th so I would like to switch that with the preceding Friday, July 4th for an overnight and then I have to work Sunday July 27th and would like to switch that for Friday July 18th. In other words, I would have M stay with me every Friday overnight in July and you will have M stay with you on the 12th and 27th overnight (which otherwise would be my weekend nights). Let me know as I need to make arrangements if you cant switch those two dates. Thx HIM: I guess since we are just telling each other what is going to happen instead of asking then I have made plans with M from July 28th to Aug 4th and we are all going to go south from Oct 11th to 18th. Regarding July 12th and 27th, those switches are fine. Also, now that summer has started I expect you to stop ignoring the court order and drop off after your overnights as if school has started. ie. at 8:15am
Posted on: Tue, 01 Jul 2014 01:03:25 +0000
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