HAVING MANY PARTNERS IS A WASTE OF TIME, MONEY & ENERGY. Some people think that having many partners is good, fun and gainful. They think that one that has many lovers never gets hurt, stressed, disappointed and broken hearted since s/he has many partners around to lean on. But that’s not true at all. Having many partners is a waste of time, money, energy and it puts your life at risks. It stresses and it always puts you on panic. MEN: Think of the situation where you’ve got many girls that you are pushing out with, You have to cater for them, you need to take them out on dates, when it comes to special days like birthdays, valentine, Christmas… you have to shower them with presents. You have to keep your phone out of their reach. You have to be deleting messages all the time. If some of the girls are students maybe at a certain university; you need to raise at least half or a quarter of the tuition that’s if she’s an orphan or not.. You need to provide at least half of the money for accommodation and her necessities but remember you aren’t the only guy doing this for her. You need to meet all these girls on a daily basis; you have to show them that you love them in any possible way. You have to always be with new lies to tell them and you have to be very careful so that you don’t repeat the old lies. When it comes to calling them; you have to contact them all and in case one finds your phone busy for long hours, you have to be questioned who the caller was. You have to take them shopping on different days and spend like a son of a billionaire… WOMEN: Think of a scenario where you have got many men you’re dating. You got to meet them all. You have to be deleting messages all the time. You have to be with sensible lies to tell all these guys so that you drain something out of them. You have to show your body almost to all these guys who even won’t settle down with you and they have no intention of marrying you. Think of kissing every guy’s lips… think of the sleepless nights you’ll be having since you’ll be yapping on phone with these guys in different intervals. Think of the daily panic you’ll be encountering since you don’t want these guys to get to know each other. Now,If you’re not lucky enough, things can screw up and you end up being dumped like a used toilet paper. And in most cases the one that you loved most is the one who hates you the more and that hurts so much. Now you’ll be left alone with a broken heart. You’ll start thinking of the years you wasted, the serious people you took for granted,Think of your lost dignity, think of the ugly names that people will start calling you and think of the diseases you’ll acquire. My dear friends, if you’re a victim of this, stop it immediately and settle down with one person who will love you for what you’re not for what you have or what you have to offer. Stick with one person who won’t love you for fun or to pass time with you. I know some people say that “How will I know that so and so is serious with me and isn’t gonna love me for fun?” But there isn’t any special way to identify such a person but all what you have to do is to commit that one person you have in God’s hands and He’ll shape him/her in the right way for you. But if that person disappoints you, it’ll be easy to deal with unlike with many people. If you’re to have arguments; you’ll have them with one person not many people. If you’re to cry and plead, you’ll do it for one person. If you are to say sorry or ask for forgiveness for the wrong things you’ve done you’ll be ask it from one person not many people. If you’re to spend your money, you’ll spend it on one person who loves you not the many people you’ll not be sure of if they all adore you. If you’re to use the word “I love you”, you’ll use it on only one person not everyone. If time comes for introducing someone you love to your friends & parents, it’ll be one person not many partners. If you’re to show out your body, you’ll show it to only one person who loves you and it won’t put your life at risks of acquiring viral diseases. If you’re to spare time for someone you love, you’ll spare it for only one person. If you’re to go out with someone you love, You’ll be free from lies. You won’t be with any fear of being caught in any shit. You’ll be saved from sleeping out in turns. you’ll save yourself from calling everyone your brother, sister and cousin. You’ll have enough sleep because you won’t be with many partners calling you or to call in the nights. You’ll have sufficient time for yourself, your friends, work, studies, family and you’ll develop yourself in many ways. I hope am making sense...
Posted on: Sat, 01 Nov 2014 16:04:07 +0000
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