HEALING AFTER SOMEONE HAS CHEATED ON YOU Step 2 Clear the air. Discuss the factors in your relationship that may have led to the infidelity. Looking back, you could have missed warning signs that your spouse was about to stray. Have a frank discussion about the motivation to cheat and how the affair developed. While full disclosure is important, avoid asking for potentially painful details. According to clinical psychologist Susan Heitler, negative images may stay with you and deepen your trauma.
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