HELLO FACEBOOK FAMILY,FRIENDS,FOLLOWERS,ETC.I NEED TO CLARIFY SOMETHING I PUT ON F/B A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO,{I DO NOT HAVE A DATE FOR TONIGHT}NEVER DID,NEVER WILL.I APOLOGIZE.I DID THAT BECAUSE THERE ARE CERTAIN PPL THATS ALWAYS TELLING ME THAT ITS GONNA TAKE ME YEARS BEFORE I CAN START DATING AGAIN OR BEFORE I CAN MOVE ON AND BE ABLE TO ENJOY LIFE AFTER LOSING SOME ONE SO CLOSE.YOU SEE THAT BOTHERS ME,CAUSE TOMORROW MAY NEVER COME FOR ME,NONE OF US KNOWS THAT FOR SURE,SO HOW CAN U PUT A TIME FRAME ON SOME ONES HAPPINESS,WHEN TO START LIVING AGAIN?MY HUSBAND BEEN GONE 8 MONTHS AND HE COULD BE GONE 8 YEARS AND FOR SOME,THATS STILL NOT GONE BE LONG ENOUGH TO GRIEVE, BEFORE ALLOWING MYSELF TO DATE AGAIN.I COULD FIND SOME ONE TOMORROW,FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM, 10 YEARS DOWN THE ROAD,WE MARRY AND SOME WHERE IN THAT MARRIAGE FIND MYSELF STILL CRYING OVER THE LOST OF MY 1ST HUSBAND,GRIEVING IS A NEVER ENDING PROCESS,IT JUST GETS A LITTLE LESS PAINFUL AS TIME GOES BY. ITS SO EASY TO SIT BACK AND TELL SOME ONE ELSE HOW TO LIVE AND WHAT TO DO,WHEN YOURE NOT GOING THROUGH WHAT I AM.YOU HAVE SOME ONE COMING HOME TO YOU AT NIGHT,I DONT,YOU GOT SOME ONE TO GO TO THE MOVIES WITH IF YOU CHOOSE, I DONT,YOU GOT SOME ONE TO GO HAVE DINNER WITH,OR GO SHOPPING WITH I DONT,THE HOLIDAYS ARE FAST APPROACHING,YOU WILL BE CHRISTMAS SHOPPING FOR THE GRANDS,TRIMMING THE TREE,SPENDING THE HOLIDAYS WITH,MAKING MEMORIES TOGETHER,I DONT EXCEPT MY KIDS.THERE IS LIFE OUTSIDE THE CHURCH PPL,EVEN JESUS DANCED AT A WEDDING. HOWEVER I DO BELIEVE IN GIVING YOURSELF TIME TO GRIEVE AND HEAL AND TRY TO PULL WHATS LEFT OF YOUR LIFE BACK TOGETHER FOR YOURSELF AS MUCH AS YOU CAN BEFORE MOVING ON,BUT LIFE DOESNT END FOR THE ONE LEFT BEHIND ONLY THE ONE WHO ANSWERED THE CALL.THIS IS NOT A PITY PARTY,I DONT THROW THOSE,THIS IS NOT PUTTING MY BUSINESS OUT THERE, THIS IS HOPEFULLY SHARING SOME INPUT ON LIVING AFTER DEATH,OUR LIVES DONT HAVE TO END JUST BECAUSE SOME ONE SAYS ITS NOT APPROPRIATE,THE DEAD DONE DID WHAT THEY HAD TO DO AND WE AS SURVIVING SPOUSES HAVE TO FIND AWAY TO LIVE WITHOUT THEM AS BEST WE CAN AND FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE NO ENCOURAGING WORDS TO MOTIVATE THE ONES LEFT BEHIND,WAIT UNTIL YOU WALK IN OUR SHOES BEFORE GIVING US YOUR UNWELCOME ADVICE.THANK YOU MOM FOR CALLING ALL THE WAY FROM NORTH CAROLINA ENCOURAGING ME TO HAVE FUN TONIGHT,BUT TRUTH BE TOLD,I WILL BE HOME AS USUAL,WATCHING .TV.THANK YOU FOR ENCOURAGING ME,GOD IS WORKING IT OUT FOR ME,HIM I TRUST IN.
Posted on: Sat, 09 Nov 2013 22:48:17 +0000
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