HOW DO I STOP MY ADDICTION TO ZINA (FORNICATION)? Anyone who is addicted to committing Zina must hasten to deal with it in a number of ways, including the following: 1- Seriously think of getting married, because this is the sharia (legal Islamic) and natural protection for the Muslim man and woman. If you are planning marriage with a brother or sister but he or she doesnt feel like marrying for whatever reason please ignore him or her and move on with your search. Whoever is not willing to marry is not worth wasting your time on. Be free from bondage of zina of all kinds, I mean zina of eyes, mouth, hands, mind, legs etc. All minor zina leads to the major one. Give him or her the RED CARD and defeat sheitan. 2- Fasting if one cannot get married. Strive to be fasting regularly with lots of zikir. 3- Muslim men and women should strive to strengthen their Eemaan (faith) by reading Qur’an, offering naafil (voluntary) prayers and doing other kinds of acts of worship. 4- Taking care to choose righteous friends. Edit your friends and keep only good practicing Muslims. 5- Keeping away from everything that might provoke desire; one of the most obvious of these is looking at things which are haram (impermissible). Avoid watching unnecessary movies. 6- Remembering the punishment for zina in this world and in the Hereafter, and that its evil affects far outweigh the immediate pleasure that a person may experience. Make dua. Get up in the latter part of the night and beseech your Lord, submitting yourself to Him and humbling yourself before His Majesty, asking Him to rid you of the problem. Turn to your Lord and call upon Him, for He is the best One to be asked – may He be glorified – and He does not turn away His slaves if they are sincere. We ask Allah to keep us safe and sound with regard to our religious commitment and our worldly affairs, and to help us put our affairs in order before we meet our Lord. Aameen.
Posted on: Tue, 09 Dec 2014 05:45:07 +0000