HOW TO CHECK A WOMAN WHO CALLS HER SELF BLUNT REVISED Women who use the typical phrase Im a female who speaks her mind, are usually overweight women who have sassy attitudes to compensate for their size due to insecurety issues. Whether its a big girl or an average sized gal, any female who tells a man that shes a woman who likes to speak her mind or calls herself blunt, is testing a mans integrity to see whether or not that man is a push over. Thankfully, this lesson may teach men how to properly respond to such a statement, and at the same time, subconsciously put in HER mind that her so called bluntness has no power over you. The technique that must be used is Verbal Passive Aggression which is a type of behavior or personality characterized by indirect resistance to the demands of others and an avoidance of direct confrontation. Please rehearse the responses word for word, so that youll remember how to respond if youre faced with a woman who claims that she is blunt. If a Female says to you, that she speaks her mind or says that shes blunt Ask her what does she mean when she says that shes blunt or she likes to speak her mind. If she says anything along the lines of telling people bluntly about their faults then.... Your Response Should Be: I USED TO BE THE SAME WAY, (sounding serious and STERN) (By saying you used to be the same way but in a serious manner, subconsciously causes her to relate to you and this also makes her see that YOU ARE NOT A PUSH OVER) NOW SAY THIS TO HER but at some point in time, I had to learn that its better to ENCOURAGE OUR PEOPLE than to criticize Now Give Her Understanding: Because OUR words can be DEADLY, they can be used to DESTROY a persons SPIRIT, or our WORDS can be MEDICINE and be used to HEAL PEOPLES PAIN Now Allow Your Words To Relate: The LIVES that WE live, day in and day out, can sometimes get the best of US. So ALL OF US need a word that can HEAL whatever PAIN that were going through. (Not only youve put her in check, but youve given her knowledge and understanding to use her words as healing, so that she wont verbally disrespect you.) WHAT IF SHE DISAGREES WITH THE RESPONSES THAT I GAVE HER? The chances of her disagreeing with you are slim to none, due to the fact that you gave her such a profound response which was meaningful, but if she does resort to disagreeing with you and starts saying things along the lines that she still wants to be blunt, then you check her and CHOP THE DEUCES. Say this : Then were not COMPATIBLE, because Id be a fool if I let you talk to me any kinda way, like I said before, our words need to be used to uplift our people, and if you have a problem with that, then YOU NEED TO LEAVE ME ALONE (Hang up if this is on the phone, or walk away if this is in person) NOTE: From my personal experiences, in certain situations, when a man tells a woman to leave him alone, for some reason this causes her to chase him, because hes showing resistance, and this is a turn on to women. Keep in mind that YOU can use this method when its necessary. But remember verbal disrespect from a WOMAN must not be taken lightly, and it is worth you threatening her to leave, so that shell understand that you are serious. If she comes back and tries to make a mends with you, but shes is not being sincere, call her out on that and leave her alone again to let her waddle in her own guilt so she can find herself. This type of treatment that youve given her may really mess with her mind to the point that she would want to be back in your life and do right by you. If she hits you back a second time apologizing to you sincerely, then give her a lecture about her tongue, and how it can be used to destroy peoples spirits but should be used to encourage them. Remember that Men Dont Chase Women, They Lead Them®
Posted on: Thu, 25 Sep 2014 17:58:14 +0000
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