HOW TO DEAL WITH RUDE BEHAVIOR What do you do when someone behaves very rudely to you? 1. Get upset 2. React rudely back 3. Get frustrated 4. Run-away from and avoid the person or the situation 5. Blame the person 6. Preach to the person None of these will in any way strengthen you. Then what are the options? See rude behavior in this light: 1. It indicates the intensity of their commitment 2. It indicates the amount of stress and insensitivity 3. It projects the up-bringing of the person 4. It indicates a behavioral pattern 5. It shows lack of knowledge 6. It shows lack of observation of ones own mind and its sensations 7. It shows you behavior to avoid 8. It is an opportunity for you to welcome and absorb the rudeness 9. It strengthens your mind 10. It unconditions the love that you are The next time when someone is rude to you, make sure you dont get upset. Just give back a broad smile. If you can digest the rudeness, nothing whatsoever can shake you (Y)
Posted on: Fri, 24 Oct 2014 06:30:00 +0000