HOW TO GET A GUY TO OPEN UP (FOR THE LADIES) 1.Give him your compete attention when he talks. If he is finally opening up to you, dont interrupt him. Allow him to finish what he has to say before giving him your input. If you say something that angers him or gets him sidetracked, he might not open up about that subject again. 2.Allow him to relax before asking him about his day. Although women find venting about a stressful day therapeutic, many men need time to cool down and relax before opening up. Dont press him to talk to you until hes ready, or its likely that hell shut down completely. 3.Make him feel comfortable. Chances are, if you open up to him about your feelings, hell do the same. Dont get too deep too soon, though, because that could have the opposite effect. He might feel pressured or overwhelmed and avoid the subject. Start out lightly, and see where the conversation goes. Follow his lead. If he seems to want to delve deeper into the topic at hand, feel free to talk more about your feelings. 4.Do things together. If you get him into the right environment, such as a sports game or his favorite hangout spot, he might be more relaxed. When hes relaxed, hes more inclined to open up and tell you how he feels. 5.Tell him how much you appreciate it when he shares his feeling with you. If he sees how important it is, and how happy he makes you, he will want to do it more often. Everyone their own set of personal needs in a relationship, and conversation might not be high on his list. So your partner might not realize how important it is for him to talk to you. By thanking him, you are letting him know that you value his feelings. Avoid judging him. If he opens up and thinks hes being judged, he might feel resentful and keep quiet about things in the future.. Agree or disagree
Posted on: Fri, 02 Jan 2015 12:26:20 +0000
Trending Topics
Recently Viewed Topics
© 2015