HOW TO GET HER ADDICTED TO YOU I’m fascinated by the concept of “addiction”. I’m always interested in topics like this that are thought of as “bad” things, but that also happen so often that you have to wonder if they’re pre-programmed into us. We easily become addicted to things, and those things that cause the most emotions tend to create stronger addictions. Again, this all has a history in evolution. But first, what do we mean by addiction? We can say that addiction is a pathological Relationship to mood altering experience that has damaging consequences. Addiction was originally positive because it made us repeat good things, especially when they weren’t always available. The most powerful reinforcement of behavioral addiction is intermittent reward, e.g. gambling. If you only get the reward sometimes, you think about it ALL the time.This makes evolutionary sense because it’s more important to repeatedly pursue something that’s not certain to always be there than something that can be had whenever it’s wanted. We’re now in an environment that’s very different from 100 years ago when things like yummy berries were limited. In a prepackaged world where we can isolate, synthesize, and refine the most pleasurable things, addiction can cause a lot of damage… as we all can see. Still, understanding that addiction once served to keep us pursuing uncertain valuable rewards shows us a way to intensify women’s attraction to us: Don’t constantly do overly-nice things! If you want a woman to be “addicted” to you, then you need to mix it up. Don’t buy her things, write her notes, and give her flowers every single time you see her when you first meet her. Wait.....Do it when it’s least expected and then wait until she doesn’t expect it again,this is the way to not only make her think about you more, but also the way to make her want and appreciate the nice things you do for her… rather than expecting them and thinking of them as you are trying to manipulate her.
Posted on: Sat, 28 Jun 2014 23:35:26 +0000