HOW TO KNOW A WIFE MATERIAL? I planned on writing on a different topic today but someone wanted to know this and i figured i would share it with more people. (Please, if you have questions you know that will benefit yourself and others, ask me and i will gladly answer them, if i dont know, will ask people who know). So, The question he asked was how he would know if his girlfriend is a wife material. And this is my answer 1. WHOLENESS: How whole is she? The most important attribute to watch out for, is if she is the dependent type, is she physically dependent, emotionally dependent, financially dependent, intellectually dependent, materially dependent, spiritually dependent, and so much more? I can go on and on. Everyone is to seek the path of wholeness. Men should stop seeing women who are strong willed or opinionated with an egoistical look. If you want your sanity, you need such women in your life. A dependent woman on all things, is not whole within herself, and because she is not, she will become a liability for you. Gone are those days that women depended on men to have a name, or to become something or someone. 2. HUMBLE BUT POWERFUL: Believe it or not, arrogance is not part of the attributes a woman should have.But humility irrespective of what level you have attained in life. Yelling and screaming when everything is not going your way just shows how ignorant and weak you are. You can assertively say no i do not agree with you without causing a scene and without yelling. You see a woman who screams at other people, kids, strangers and is quickly given to anger, take to your heels. 3. A GOOD HEART: It is very important that a woman has a good heart. It is in the heart of a woman that her feminine side evolves. And you will know from how she treats herself and others and also, with the words she says. What is her perspective on life? About kids? About marriage? About herself? Ask the right questions and pay attention to what she says. The answer of her being is in what she tells you unconsciously. 4. HER AMBITIONS: You need a very ambitious woman. Someone who can see far into the future more than you. Women are gifted with a 6th sense. And not only will she use it career wise for herself but also give you one or two ideas to move your own business or career forward. Her ambitious nature would always find solution to things and circumstances. 5. COURAGEOUS: There is a difference between being very bold and courageous and being timid and shy because you are in love. A powerful woman would be filled with courage and boldness to do what she wants to do and live the way it pleases her, that would benefit everyone in the long run. 6. SUPPORT: You want someone who will support your dreams always. Even if you have 1 million dreams, she will support each one, because what she does is, she wants to see you happy. There are times that she would not be in support naturally because it does not FEEL right to her, but later on, she will agree to support you because she knows that if it brings joy to you, then it would bring joy to her too. 7.PRAYER IS THE KEY: You want to dig deep into her spiritual life. is she really very spiritual and prayerful. A praying wife opens more doors for her husband. And it is really because of her that the man finds favor from the LORD. So it is important that she knows how to go on her knees often to bring down success into every area of her home. Let us stop here for now. Wishing you all a beautiful Tuesday. It is well with us all. One love always.
Posted on: Tue, 25 Nov 2014 07:19:39 +0000
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