HOW TO TELL IF A GUY LIKES YOU. How to Tell if a Guy Likes You More Than a Friend Lately you and your favorite guy friend have been spending more time together. All of a sudden, youre blushing every time he talks and realize that youre ready for more than just friendship. You want to say something, but are afraid to make a move because you dont know if he feels the same way. Does he have you firmly planted in the Friend Zone or does he reciprocate your warm and fuzzy feelings? Read on to find out! 1. Notice What He Says: Notice the way he talks to you . The way he talks to you can say a lot about how he really feels. Here are some things to consider: Note his tone. Does he talk to you in a measured way that shows that hes put a lot of thought into what you think? Note his eye contact. Does he look you in the eye when he talks to you, or does he look around the room distractedly? Note that he may be afraid of eye contact because he likes you. He could just be shy! Note if he gets easily interrupted. If hes talking to you, but someone else comes up, does he instantly forget your conversation? If so, what he says to you may not be so important. 2. Notice what he chooses to say to you. What he talks to you about can be a big indicator of how he really views you. Here are some signs that the things he says mean he wants more from you: If he teases you. If he playfully teases you a lot, this is a great sign that hes flirting and wants you to flirt back! If he tells you personal information. If hes telling you about his issues with his family, or his anxieties and fears, then he may be wanting to take the relationship to a deeper level. If he compliments you. If hes always subtly complimenting how smart you are, or if he tells you that you look great when you see him, this is a sign that he really admires who you are. If he minimizes his bro-ness. If you notice that when he jokes around his guy friends, he tends to burp and curse and be vulgar, but that he makes an effort to be more refined around you, thats a sign that hes really paying attention to what he says. If he asks about your romantic life. If hes subtly trying to find out if youre going on dates or seeing other guys, then he may want to be the one you have eyes for. Note that if hes constantly trying to set you up with one of his friends, or asks why you dont go out on a date with so-and-so, he may be trying to keep you in the Friend Zone by making sure youre shooting cupids arrow elsewhere. 3. Note what he says about other girls. Paying attention to what he says about other girls can tell you if he just wants your advice, or if youre the only girl hes after. If hes always asking your advice about how to win over his latest conquest, this may be a sign that he just sees you as a friend and values your opinion because youre a girl. He may ask your advice on how to get a girl and that might mean that hes asking you, in a different way, what you would like from a guy so he could get you. However, if hes always a bit negative about any girl he goes on dates with or says things like, I just cant find the right girl, he may really be saying that he thinks the right girl is you. If he acts like a player, it may mean one of two things. If hes always talking about his latest conquest, then he may in fact just be a player, and you should protect your heart. However, he may be doing this just to make you jealous. See if hes really seeing as many girls as he says he is, or if hes just trying to get a reaction out of you. 4. Note what he says to you when youre apart . Some guys are just plain shy and are better at showing their feelings online or over the phone. Note the ways he communicates with you through the following methods: The phone. Does he sound nervous when you talk on the phone? This may be a sign that he wants to impress you. Are your conversations long, or does he try to get to the point and get off the phone as quickly as possible? Email. If he tries very hard to impress you with his wit and correct grammar, then chances are, hes spending a lot of time crafting his words to show you how smart and clever he is. Text messaging. Does he just text you to say when and where to meet, or does he sometimes text you just because he wants to chat? Does he try to be funny or send emoticons? If hes putting extra effort into his texting, chances are, he wants to put extra effort into your relationship. Facebook. Does he like a lot of your photos and post on your wall often? This may be a sign that hes keeping tabs on you. Take all of this with a grain of salt. Some guys are just not phone, email, or Facebook people. He may just rather see you in person, and theres nothing wrong with that.. NOTICE WHAT DOES. 1. Pay attention to his body language . Body language can go a long way in showing you if hed rather be cuddling with you than just hanging out. Notice the following: If he accidentally touches you a lot. If youre sitting together during a movie, does his knee brush up against yours? If youre passing something to him, do his fingers linger on yours? This may be a sign that he wants to touch you more. If you catch him staring at you. If youre out with a group and you notice him staring at you, this is a sign that hes admiring you. If you catch his eye and he smiles and looks away, this is a sign that he knows hes been caught staring! If his body is engaged when he talks to you. If his entire body is turned toward you when you talk, and if his arms are open and not folded at his side, this is a sign that hes open to what you have to say. You earn bonus points if you always find him leaning in closely to talk to you. 2. Notice what he does for you . Does he go out of his way to be a good friend? If so, he may be doing something more. Here are some signs that he may be developing that lovin feeling every time he looks your way: If hes always doing you favors. If you find him doing things like giving you rides, making you lunch when youre having a busy day at work, picking up your laundry, or helping you fix your car, he may be angling for the boyfriend role. If hes constantly being thoughtful. If he brings back your favorite dessert from a bakery, or buys you that book youve been meaning to read, this is a sign that hes really paying attention to your needs. If he comforts you when youre upset. Lets face it--no guy wants to comfort a random crying girl. However, if he really cares for you, hell be there to listen to your problems, and probably wants to take the relationship further. 3. Notice how he acts around other girls. Seeing what he does around other girls can tell you how he really feels about you. Here are some ways to get a better sense of his true feelings: Does he treat every girl the same way he treats you? If you notice that youre the only one he wants to be around in big groups, and the only girl he teases and likes to pick up when youre hanging out in the pool, this is a sign that he wants to be with you. #*However, if you notice him teasing and touching every girl in a five-mile radius, he may just be a flirt. Does he flaunt his relationships in front of you? If he openly has you hanging out with him and his new date, then he may really see you as just a friend. However, if he has you there to see what you really think, this may be a sign that he knows youre the one for him. If hes cagey about hanging with other girls, then this may be a sign that he already sees you as a girlfriend and feels hes being disloyal. 4. See if he goes out of his way to be with you . This is a sure-fire sign that he wants to take things to the next level. Here are some ways to know how he really feels: If hes constantly asking you to hang out. This one is a no- brainer. If he tries to sidle up to you when youre in groups. If he wants to be your partner in class, or if he wants to be your partner during a chicken fight, chances are, he cant get enough of you. If hes always claiming hes in the area and asks if he can stop by. If hes making excuses for why he wants to hang out, this may be a sign that hes embarrassed about how much he wants to be with you. 75E5BD4D
Posted on: Thu, 27 Mar 2014 18:39:23 +0000
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