Here are 5 Steps to Ending a Relationship with a Narcissist: 1. Distance yourself emotionally and physically from this person. If they are a co-worker, do not accept their invitations anymore. If its a boyfriend, take a step back to get your bearings so you can walk away. If its a family member, this may be more difficult, but there are numerous ways to distance yourself from a person like this. 2. Realize that the problem is not you. You need to explore why you attracted this personality type, but thats the only place where you need to put your focus. Anything this person said or did to you is their challenge and not a fault of yours. A narcissist will never blame himself. 3. When you are ready which I hope is quickly, walk away. It will be painful but walk anyway, and quickly. Do not argue with them or provide long explanations as they will attempt to bait you into staying. Walk and dont look back. You will be glad you did. If its a spouse or boyfriend, narcissists move on quickly. Within weeks or a few short months, they will be in love with someone else. People may wonder how you let such a charmer get away. Stay true to yourself and do NOT worry about what others think. Trust that any intelligent person will go through the same situation and will walk as well. 4. Free yourself from needing others approval. Often, people who need approval are the ones who attract this abusive personality type. Do not look to another person for approval because you will never feel fulfilled. If you look to a narcissist for approval? You will fall into feeling completely abused and you will regret. 5. Love yourself and surround yourself with people who genuinely love you.
Posted on: Mon, 03 Feb 2014 15:53:23 +0000
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