Here is a real confession and you girls, young ladies and women need to read this carefully. Ive been married for 14years and been separated for three years. During those fourteen years my ex. Be little me, called me names, and physically and emotionally abused me. I kept leaving him and than I would take him back because I thought he changed and will be a nice, kind, gentle man. The first two months was great, however; his attitude change back to the person I left real quick. Than we split up and got back together (continue cycle) I have five kids and my kids was going through the emotional damage because of me taking my husband back. Three years ago he tried killing me. We came home we both where intoxicated and I woke up lying on the floor. I had no clue what happen I was knocked out and only remember a lie my ex told me. I had to go to the hospital because my nose was bleeding and I thought it was broken. When I got home from the hospital, I went to bed. The next morning my face hurt I went to the bathroom and I had rug burns really bad and a black eye I didnt go to work for a couple of weeks. I also had to take nicros for pain. So why did I keep taking him back, its because he emotionally abuse me and I had very low self esteem and thought he loved me and what ever I did I deserved it. ( I have a degree in social science and knew the signs) I didnt want to come to terms that he was an abuser and that I didnt deserve it. My advice to you ladies and men who are in a abusive relationship get out that abuser will never change.he/she may seem all good at first but its a act to lore you back in. I was lucky I didnt die because must times the victims die from their significant other hands. If you have kids, think how scared that child is seeing his mom or dad being abused. That kid will grow up thinking its ok and that it is ok to be abused or be the person who does the abuse. Its a cycle. You have to stop the cycle with your kids. Remember that no the abuser will not change and get out before you die and leave your kids with the person who killed you.
Posted on: Tue, 16 Sep 2014 00:37:48 +0000
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