Heres a BonusMom who is heartbroken over not seeing her BonusBabies over Christmas break, after BM agreed to visitation... please offer her your supportive encouragement and advice: Ok I need to vent. My fiance have been together 4 years. He is my fiance only because his exwife refuses to agree on anything and has the means to drag on the divorce for spite. We are slowly drowning in lawyers debt and $1,100 a month child support, thats not even important to me even though its rough. I really want to marry him and I love his children like they are my own. Being a stepmom is the single most difficult job I have ever had. I gave my heart to 2 special little boys. I miss them when they are gone and my 3 kids constantly ask about them. She has ruined every holiday we have ever had with them. She has stolen so many precious hours, days, and memories from us. I am so exhausted from the fights. She denies us time, she constantly calls and reminds the boys that they arent supposed to have fun here. This is all recorded and documented but no lawyer or judge will listen. The oldest boy has decided he doesnt want to see us and we cannot force him according to our lawyer so we havent seen him in a year. My so and his ex had a phone conference Friday about Christmas with the lawyers on the line. They agreed that we would pick up the youngest today at 6 and keep him until noon on Christmas. This was all agreed upon and we have a copy of the agreement. Tonight she decided she wasnt going to let us have him. The lawyers are out of the office until next year of course. We are going to miss another Christmas. My heart is broken.
Posted on: Mon, 22 Dec 2014 23:00:01 +0000
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