Hi Zane, I need advice I been with my kids father for 8 years. I have supported him most of the times, meaning financial! Im his first baby mother, and we have three kids together. Before i fell in love with him, I use to cheat on him. After our third child he came home from work, and got his clothes and the rest of his belongings. He say he was going over his mom house for a few days, because I treat him like crap, and I have a nasty attitude. But come to find out he met this chick at work, and invited her to come and stay with him at his mom house. I kept calling his phone to talk to him, his mom kept answering it, and wouldnt let me speak with him. Any way I guess they was working on being with each other. Keep in mind I supported him before he got a job, and still supporting him now that he doesnt have a job. But he left me and my kids at the beginning of the month when all of the bills was due, and very little food. Since he found a job we was gone split all of the bills. Any way I ended up moving back with my mom because we were living in a city that only his peoples lived. And all of my family was up the road. I was so hurt and devastated. I even went back down there and fought the girl. She pressed charges against me, and he basically told on me to, to the detectives. I got lock up, and put on Probation and had to pay a fine. But any way 3 weeks later we ended up getting back with each other. He promised me not to have any form of communication with the girl. I have caught her texting his phone, and her name was saved under a different name, she has message him on fb when she was suppose to been block. And she screen shot to my phone of pictures that he have sent her of his penis. Ok I forgave him for that, and he promise he would block her once again and etc. Look at his phone the other day and he have a notification that she accepted his friend request on fb. Also look threw his gallery in his phone, and found all kinds of random chicks pic in his phone . And seen a message from some chick in his phone but his messages to her was deleted. Im so sick of the bullshit. I have his back, in everything, make sure he has hot water,food to eat,entertainment,clpthes I even help him out with his p.o. Take care of home and the kids well being by myself because he cant find a job. Should I leave him? He say s he does those things because im always tired, r sleep, and I always be in pain. I just got medical insurance, and just had surgery. So im working on those things. This year will make nine years. I love him and We have three kids together. And he cant turn to his family for shit, not even a ride because they are barely making it theirselves. If im the only person thats down for him, I just dont understand how is it so hard for him to stay down and be loyal? Help!! MY RESPONSE: Darling, I am going to let the other people on my page handle this one because my response is too obvious. You already know that there is no way on earth that I would suggest trying to work things out with a Cane Corso/Alaskan Malamute mixed breed. If nine years of taking care of a man who plays Russian Roulette with his dick is not enough for you, I am not sure what it will take to make you walk away. He has taken your dignity, probably has affected your health, and eventually he will take your life (you will end up dead from violence, in prison, or drop dead from bad health). You just had surgery and instead of being able to regain your strength, he is draining the oxygen out of your body. Please love yourself and your kids more than you love him. Good luck and much love.
Posted on: Wed, 15 Jan 2014 18:18:49 +0000
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