Hi everybody, can anybody offer any advice for this situation? ~Stephanie~ Kathryn Stormz October 29th 2012 my boyfriend Blake an i of 4years at the time got into a severe motorcycle accident, he was taking me to work which was down the street as we were leaving he stopped and got the helmet and told me to wear it. literally 30seconds down the road we got hit whith a guy making a left hand turn and didnt signal. i flew 65ft in the air an d snapped my pelvis and shattered my foot, i was awake through the whole thing. All i could think of was Blake if he was ok because he had given me the helmet, he was almost announced dead on the scene. he brain was not responsive for 9days and doctors started speaking about his will and told his dad he would be lucky to even hold a spoon. i was in icu for 2weeks and hospital for a month i had multiple complications. Blake ct scan showed nothing but scrambled eggs. one day he wiggled his toes. they were then able to operate on him as well as his snapped tibia, he had severe swelling in the brain. the main part of his head he hit was the frontal lobel which controls your moods, personality ect. blake and i were released out the hospital november 29th . i had to be reimmted for blood complications for another 2weeks in December. it had been a long struggle after for blake and i. his moods were out of control he suffered severe depression but i wasnt aware of how a tbi can affect u and the different effects. he always told me something was not right in his head he feels a lose screw. we got out own apartment in March. Blake would sit and cry and wouldnt be able to do anything, even simple tasks he wasnt able to do because of his depression. we got him help and then he started over dosing on his medications once took 40 pills of zolaft 100mg. just because . his impulsive descions were out of control. i didnt no how to handle it. he stopped going to work, everything went out of hand he then had thoughts of suicide. i was seeing a different blake to who i was with before. he was emitted for 2weeks , when he returned he went back to his old ways. after 6 months i couldnt take it anymore so i got up and left . he then told me he would take his life. i called help and they took him away. he camed out a changed person but i was scared i was afraid to see what i saw, afraid i would come home he would be dead. i was also suffereing my own complications i suffered major PTSD. everyone told me to leave him, he would ruin my life i would have to babysit him. i couldnt leave the man who put his own life in danger. i would have been dead if he never gave me the helmet for that he suffered TBI . i realized the man i once new died the day of the accident. im back with him and we talking but i want help. He sometimes cant control the things that he sais. but hes on his medication right and has been doing well . i want to be by his side, i want to help him. no one understands and how to make them understand i dont no ? . this year has been nothing but vtress and complications, worry and fights. but we suffered something really traumatic and hes a miracle, he lived. he walks and tal;ks hes the same but his personally with how he reacts is not. someone help me please!
Posted on: Thu, 22 Aug 2013 16:31:12 +0000
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