Hi jeremiah, withold my identity n let me know when you post. I write this with a hurting heart. Iv been positive for the past 4 years plus now and I can say I taking real darn good care of myself. The issue here is on dating a person thats positive. I frequently read posts of people finding out their partner is +ve while they r -ve and asking if they shud leave n what not. N most of the comments wud be telln the person to walk away. Saying u want to die young, or life is precious, go find someone who is negative. The list of hurtful comments is endless. People dont realise the stigma they r sending out with such comments. I mean Id read those comments n doubt whether or not I shud tell a potential partner. Yes we got the infection one way or another, and we regret it and wish we cud turn back the hands of time, I for one have learnt a whole lot about life since I discovered. N I ask myself if me gettn the virus was a way of God opening my eyes, a way for God to use me to make a difference in ones life. I currently run an org that deals with children affected or infected. And trust me its doing wonderfully. I wonder if I wudv done the same job had I not been positive? Well only God knows. So anyway, back to the issue. You people discourage people frm getting into such relationships, u discourage positive people frm telling the truth to their partners for fear of being left, being stigmatised, being sidelined. Go ahead n insult me all u want, I dont care. What u shud be advising people is how to live safely. Advise them on the risks, but ey, life is made of risks. Advise them on how they cn support their partner, such advice. Not ati ur partner will die n liv u sick. WTH!! Who wants to be told that? So please, certain issues, think wisely before commenting, u will find ur very own partner is positive n reads how ur attitude towards such people is n wont tell u. Yes sometimes u have tell it in black n white but before answering such a question, put urself in the shoes of the person that is positive. Wudnt u love tobe accepted? Wudnt u love to be with someone who loves u to the point that they dnt care whats wrong with u? Imjussayin coz tobe honest, it hurts when some of u air out ur opinions. Thanx
Posted on: Sun, 26 Oct 2014 16:15:17 +0000
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