Hi lavu dokta,pliz hide I.d & post for me. Doc am devasted right now. I just dont know what to think of these ladies anymore. I have known this lady for over a year and was dating her for close to 4months. In that period,she claimed to be a virgin & that she would only give it up on her wedding night. Its the best gift you would give your husband,she said. I understood and never bothered about it. However, our relationship started failing bit by bit { it was a long distance relationship } and we both just went quiet on each other. I tried to revive it but to no avail. All I got were harsh responses so I kept quiet. I was quiet hurt you know. 6 months down the line,the same lady re-surfaces, we talk as though things are normal { I literally dont keep grudges against people } then soon she opens up that there is someone else. He is a good person and the are currently dating. She says she is nolonger a virgin cause they have slept {maybe still sleeping} together. Now,this is the part were it becomes surprisingly interesting. She claims shes still in love with me & not him and that shes in a state of dilemma. Lavu dokta,I have failed to understand this. If at all she ever loved me or herself that is,why did she go out of her will to give her virginity to someone whos not yet her husband? She couldnt do that with me not until am her husband but she did that with someone else. I am just so heart broken right now I dont know what to think of her anymore. By the way,I have kept myself even during the 6month period we havent been talking. I did not rush into relationships. So doc,how do u handle such people because I feel sick whenever I think of her
Posted on: Thu, 30 Oct 2014 08:13:36 +0000
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