Hlompho Well Behaved Maseko Wrote; To the couple that bears hope Some of us have lost hope and some of us have so much of it in our hearts. But whichever one you are just remember that relationship are a hard work. You can’t just give up because you feel this doesn’t work for you. When you started school did you this works for you? The waking up in the morning the behaving in class then the teacher comes back and finds the class was making noise and bashed all of you? Did you think it works for you? NO, everything requires hard work endurance and most of all - Determination. Everyone comes into a relationship hoping for the best and not the worst, I believe it is vital to actually consider another person’s feelings and not disregard them. One of the things that make me think or believe our relationships are not working is the phrase that exists in tongues and minds of individuals “Accept me for who I am”. Because of this you find that relationships collapse because a mere sacrifice cannot be made. People forget that individualism dies once you enter a relationship… hence you are referred to as an ITEM. When one goes into a relationship, they need to lose a part of who they are (used to be). If you look at it in mathematical terms, take a full circle and make that your Life (personality); and take another full circle and that is your partners life (personality)… then take another full circle and make that a relationship. These three circles are the same size and for the two circles to fit into the last circle and complete the area, it is required that they lose a part of each so they can fit. Now if one Circle 1 decides it’s only gonna lose 30% of itself and enters the 3rd circle, it occupies 70% of the circle area… leaving only 30% room for Circle 2. If you view the Relationship circle you will identify that is rather unfair that the relationship is occupied by one personality more than the other and this is a Life imbalance scenario. This relationship will not survive much time for nothing supplied to it can be consumed equally. This leads to one person feeling inferior to another in a relationship and security is lost. When security is lost, faith is lost, and when faith is lost – hope is lost and when hope is lost… LOVE is lost # Lose_A_Part_Of_You but only if you want to have a person to live with and be happy with for the rest of your life.
Posted on: Fri, 14 Nov 2014 05:50:37 +0000
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