Holding hands through the seasons in life walking down the proverbial ever winding road together, even walking a few steps behind someone sometimes supporting them at a real distance or behind imaginary lines, giving each other space and time to experience and sort through their heart and feelings of hurt, anger and rage from their feelings of rejection, which is loss, can all be different ways to say "I care about your hurt and pain", even if it is directed at or caused by you. This is not trying to force forgiveness to take place. It is simply saying "no matter what, in my imperfection, if you want or need me, I am here." Sometimes letting go of their hand and letting them walk away is putting them first, not yourself, no matter how hard that might be, praying someday they understand that you acknowledge "they" are worth walking through fire for no matter what. They have to find their way to healing while we are doing the same in love.
Posted on: Sat, 29 Jun 2013 21:44:14 +0000
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