How To Fix Her Jealousy? 1. Express your love for her. First of all, jealousy is a sign of love, or better said a sign of insecurity about love. If you make your princess feel loved trough your sweet words and romantic actions, then chances are that she’ll be more secure about your love, thus less jealous. 2. Don’t give her reasons to be jealous. Be sincere with her. Never lie about where you’re going. Avoid all possible reasons that could get her jealous. Reasons like not calling her all day, ignoring her too much, not having time for her, being too busy, going out very often, chatting with people on Facebook while talking to her on Skype, texting with someone while talking to her Skype, etc. Think of it this way: Before doing something that my get her jealous ask yourself “If she were here with me right now, would I do that, or not?” And if the answer is no, then don’t do it. Take care of your Facebook activity as well. Witty comments to other girls’ profiles may get her extremely jealous. So, simply avoid all possible situations that could lead to jealousy. And don’t do it for her, but do it for YOU and for YOUR relationship. Otherwise jealousy, will 90 % of the times turn into a fight. Doubts, frustration and suspicions will unavoidably lead to fights and arguments. And you’d better avoid fighting too often. Experts say that a normal ration of fighting and peaceful moments in a relationship should be 1 : 5. One fight for five great moments spent together. But if you make it 1 : 10, I promise you that you’ll have a much more joyful relationship. 3. Embrace her jealousy. Jealousy means that she loves you. She values you and she’s afraid to lose you. Enjoy it. Plus, as you’ve already seen. No matter what you do, there will always be some degree of jealousy, so you better get used to it and do what I’ll teach you later on in this article. 4. Encourage her to express jealousy. Sounds weird right? We are talking here about getting her less jealous, and I’m suggesting that you encourage her to express jealousy. Well, that’s exactly what you should do; encourage her to let it out, instead of keeping it inside and letting in boil. Unexpressed jealousy will usually lead to doubts, stress and suspicion; emotions which are easily avoided if jealousy is expressed and quickly clarified. 5. Don’t get angry about it. I know it’s annoying, I know it gets your nerves all worked up, especially if she’s constantly jealous, and especially for unfounded or insignificant reasons. But trust me, getting angry about it, only makes it worse. I know it’s hard to control your anger, but it’s even harder to deal with a half an hour argument (if not longer) about it. So, it’s not worth it. 6. Laugh about it. Instead of getting angry, simply laugh about it, tease her, and don’t take it too seriously. Because if you don’t take it too seriously, it means for her that she has nothing to worry about. But if you get all angry and worked up, besides the fact that you end up fighting, you may also plant some more doubts in her mind. So, if you forget all the other suggestions from this article, at least keep this one in mind – laugh about it, tease her, and don’t take it too seriously. 7. Don’t try to over-explain yourself. There are cases when things are not that simple and we feel the need to over explain ourselves, and try to convince them that she has nothing to worry about, or nothing happened etc. Well, I beg you to resist this tendency. Give her the information as good as you can, but DON’T try to convince her of your innocence. Sometimes it’s even better to give up early, and make feel guilty for not believing you. 8. Comfort her with love. And lastly, remind her how much you love here. Behind any jealousy, there is the need to be comforted. Now, that we are clear on how to approach the issue of jealousy in an effective manner, let’s take a look at some ground rules that you can agree upon with your significant other to diminish the negative effects of jealousy. - See more at: long-distance-lover/long-distance-jealousy/#sthash.iHcdr4Jx.dpuf
Posted on: Mon, 05 Aug 2013 19:12:40 +0000
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