How To Survive Long Distance Relationship Almost every youth today is involved in a long distance relationship and it is a tough ride. There are many times you want to give up ASI wega Iwewe There are many times you wonder if it’s after all worth it. You ask yourself if you really have to go through all the pain and loneliness. The pain of loving someone so so much, but you cannot be with them. It’s so frustrating kunyepa here?!!!! You dream, and hope that the time will come when you’ll be together. To top it off, all these happen in the midst of discouragements from people and being branded a foolish dreamer. You can only survive it because God was and is still is on your side. So practically, what do you do to survive? I have put together tips that I feel will help you traverse this hard yet exciting journey: 1. Commit your relationship to God. Most importantly, seek his guidance and purpose for it. When God is on board, the ship cannot sink 2. Surround yourself with Godly, like minded people. People who know you, who believe in you and encourages you when you feel down (you’ll be down so many times, as we said, it’s a bumpy ride). You don’t need people who believe in “ordinary” “worldly” relationships to give you their opinion on your “crazy foolish” kind of relationship. 3. Learn to share your emotions and feelings openly and clearly. Do not be afraid to communicate what you really need and want from your partner, they deserve to know the truth and make a decision on whether they can meet your expectations or not. 4. Make the relationship a high priority. Avoid canceling appointments or putting off a phone call..but this point also takes us to the next one: 5. Be prepared to be flexible. Don’t be possessive. Being paranoid and accusing each other of wrong-doing will only fuel doubts, insecurity and tension. Flexibility and Patience are key in long distance relationships. 6. Let your mate know how much you think about and love them. Make them miss you more and you’ll fill them with the constant urge to see you. 7. Spend the time “together” getting to know each other better. Make use of the technology. There are so many questionnaires (Christian ones) that will help you to build your relationship. Discuss important issues, use the “little” time wisely. Pray together. 8) be creative and send pictures, videos of yourselves. Buy long lasting gifts. Have you ever been in a Long Distance Relationship? For how long? How did you cope?
Posted on: Wed, 14 Jan 2015 04:44:52 +0000
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