How and why the sociopath repeats the same pattern of behaviour Because the sociopath does not have a conscience, she is unable to make long term plans, and thinks only of her own needs, and how she can obtain her source of supply, she will after a betrayal make apologies and promise that she will not do these actions again. perfect example, January 2nd my wife returned home after spending 3 days at the Executive Hotel in Burnaby, with Quinn Shaughnessy, the first thing she said upon her return was, obviously this is a problem for us so I wont do it again. This was the 3rd time in 3 months that she had done this, I started packing that night, and a week later I left her for good. The reason that the sociopath does this is because, when she makes new promises, she is (to her mind) starting again and putting on a fresh mask. However, because she is unable to learn from past mistakes, her brain works on default, so when faced with a new opportunity or temptation, she will cease this opportunity and act on the temptation. What has happened in the past is forgotten, and she will repeat the same pattern of behavior. This is because: she does not learn from past mistakes she is unable to have empathy for anybody else she does not experience guilt, remorse or shame for past actions, and any displayed are fake she is selfish and thinks only of herself, and her own needs The past is quickly forgotten The sociopath therefore will repeat the same patterns of behavior. she is not dictated by others feelings, or others welfare. she is only dictated by her own needs and wants. At the time of making promises to you to change, she might genuinely mean it. Due to losing source of supply. She means it because she does not want to lose this source of supply. However, the sociopath does not miss opportunities, and if temptation were to come her way again, she would likely repeat the same behavior, the mask once again slips, and it is round???? of the same behavior that has happened in the past.
Posted on: Thu, 19 Sep 2013 17:13:09 +0000
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