How do you handle BM when her comments and questions cross the line from need to know to none of your business? Please share your suggestions, ideas and advice with our next BonusMom: I am in desperate need for some tips on how to deal with an overly controlling BM. It seems that every word that comes out of BMs mouth is just a way to try to control our home. She tries desperately to find out everything we do with the children. She tries to tell us that we should be on the same page but all that means is that she wants to tell us how we should behave. My DH and I are good parents. We truly sacrifice so the kids can have a wonderful life. But then BM steps in to tell us we need to feed them this or that, dress them in this brand of clothing, only allow them to watch TV when she approves, she wants to know what were doing over the holidays (not travel plans, but like which Christmas party were going to and why). Example: this year DH has sent her 3 text messages. BM has sent us over 30! None of them have any important, urgent or even relevant information in them. We have tried very low contact. We only call/text/email her if there is an emergency or if something is court ordered we talk to her about (like education, after school events, vacation dates, etc). But were constantly trying to dodge emails, calls, texts and conflicts when we pick the kids up. Any other ideas on how to deal with an overly controling bio-mom? Even just your official party line when you get a ridiculous question or demand.
Posted on: Sat, 24 Jan 2015 00:30:00 +0000
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